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    ive always thought the review process is essentially chauvinistic and ultimately degrading at the end of the day.It commoditises women and reduces the experience to a product evaluation

    Ive tried through my reviews to be always positive and emphasize the sheer wonder of the encounter which should never be taken for granted- ive never had a bad experience but what right should i or any man have to objectivise another human being

    Its a game though and I know a lot of the girls have an engrained superficial view which makes THEM value quite highly a positive review ironically

    In this world a sense of self is lost ultimately to the pursuit of vanity and wealth.More too to the ego of the reviewer who presumes an unjustified authority of praise or condemnation

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    i agree with ksteve

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    You have to remember the power of the green light.

    Say an escort eg erika loveforu she has all green lights for reviews your for sure calling her for a good time we have plenty of these level ladies in EI, now say another girl has 1 or 2 red ones I'm looking at percentage 2 outta how many clients say bad things depends on what and who left review,

    Personally i have visited girls in past that had 60:40 ratio good v bad and had the night if my life being 100% serious best ride I ever had.

    I put 80% of bad reviews down to client hygiene n attitude the rest well you know
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    What were the other reviews that were written by this reviewer like and what were the other reviews written about this escort like?

    If the reviewer had only ever written one review then you cannot give it too much credibility. If he had written a few that were just one liners full of superlatives then you would have to suspect that he was a pimp and was out to put down a rival. If he only ever posted negatives then you would have to assume that the problem was his and not the escort's. If however, he had written a number of reviews that were mostly positive and which read as though they were honest then you would have reason to have some doubts over that escort.

    Similar things can be applied to the escort's other reviews. If they all read like pimp-tastic sales pitches then you would have to give more weight to the negative one but if they all look OK then you would have to say that there would be doubts about the negative review.

    I guess that not all potential clients will consider this though.

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    Went to visit a girl today. Made a request for her to wear something from her photos. No prob she said. Arrived, told wait 10 mins. Waited. Told wait 10 more. Went to room and when she opened the door, I'm not sure it was her in the photos. She looked different. I declined to stay but have not done a negative or grey review as there is doubt in my mind it was/not her. I'll be watching to see does anyone else comment. She has over 10 reviews and less than 20 but no one has made a comment on her looks to date.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mellors View Post
    just seems a little unfair that one persons opinion can have such a big impact on someones livelyhood.
    Seems some of you are broadly tip toeing around the elephant in the room...
    Of course it's very unfair to denigrate a girl on basis of English proficiency or location ( short of Baghdad etc) & it's patently clear that a bad review ( if it's the first for an unknown girl, or from a trusted punter) can damage an escorts' business to the degree she packs in or moves on..but:
    What about the whole issue of politeness clouding honesty ( disclaimer: I don't review on EI as I'm based in USA)- the Reviews here are rather short & having spent a year reading between the lines it <seems> that the same issue is prevalent worldwide- a small proportion of girls in this game are unfortunately a mess, they're drunk, they offer shoddy mechanical service & they shouldn't be plying this trade. Reviewers in this situation still need to be respectful but still tell the truth!
    Before anybody jumps on me- please don't misconstrue where I'm coming from- many girls do this to feed other mouth(s) & I don't need a Victoria Secret model waiting for me- but imho there are certain cases where Reviewers really can in good conscience write a 'negative review'- just my two cents...

    ps I fully agree with comments re clients' hygiene, some guys just being dickheads etc- but all other things being equal, I still stand over my central observation.
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    Although this topic has come up before, it is nonetheless an important issue, and one that deserves debate.
    We all know reviews whether positive or negative can have a major impact on a ladies business, especially if she has little or no reviews to her name.
    The question to be asked is how to proceed?

    Some may say that those that review should do so thoughtfully and in a factual basis only, leaving their opinions and views aside. After all, we may all interpret our experiences differently!
    The person who submitted the review may not be fully aware of the impact of his review - this perhaps only comes through experience.
    It is a pity that all members could not undergo a period of 'apprenticeship' through this forum before submitting reviews, so as to educate them on the consequences that their reviews and actions make.

    Some posters comment on the review system and how it may at times degrade a lady. I understand this view and the concerns of the said posters, however for some, the review system is important and therefore a 'tool' for them using this 'service'.

    Although the 'trusted reviewer' system was brought into disrepute by some members, it nonetheless provided in my opinion *a basis to trust a particular review!

    Can a poster be banned for mentioning TR's ?
    I wonder!

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    Dont understand the issue really. If you had a really bad service, leave a red. If it was not too bad but not too great, leave a grey. Unless it was a personal issue, such as non compatibility, in which case say so.

    If you want to be fair, stick to five main points-

    Appearence
    Attitude
    Atmosphere
    Accommodation
    Service

    No more, no less. This is not the Michelin guide. Ranting will make your review look silly. Pussyfooting will leave all confused. Stick to the the plain facts and no more.

    N.B Whatever you do, do not make ridiculous responses if the lady replies, unless its a blatant lie. It degenerates into nonsense and makes you look slightly odd.

    Neutral and negative reviews cant be that bad. I see most of the top rated ladies have one or two, and I expect those are the ones clients want to read. Lets not get carried away, ladies work with no reviews and unverified pics.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tulip View Post
    Went to visit a girl today. Made a request for her to wear something from her photos. No prob she said. Arrived, told wait 10 mins. Waited. Told wait 10 more. Went to room and when she opened the door, I'm not sure it was her in the photos. She looked different. I declined to stay but have not done a negative or grey review as there is doubt in my mind it was/not her. I'll be watching to see does anyone else comment. She has over 10 reviews and less than 20 but no one has made a comment on her looks to date.
    why u want 2 know other people's comments on the girl if have no intrest in seeing her.just pick another lady and have a fun time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingbee View Post
    ive always thought the review process is essentially chauvinistic and ultimately degrading at the end of the day.It commoditises women and reduces the experience to a product evaluation

    Ive tried through my reviews to be always positive and emphasize the sheer wonder of the encounter which should never be taken for granted- ive never had a bad experience but what right should i or any man have to objectivise another human being

    Its a game though and I know a lot of the girls have an engrained superficial view which makes THEM value quite highly a positive review ironically

    In this world a sense of self is lost ultimately to the pursuit of vanity and wealth.More too to the ego of the reviewer who presumes an unjustified authority of praise or condemnation

    Get off then fence
    you say one thing but do the complete opposite ,
    did you not check , you have 41 reviews
    do as i say , not as i do ?

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