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[Stephanie]

I'll be honest Stephanie, I don't think that is a good idea for ladies to do that. Fair enough if it is within a very short time-frame but any longer than 30 mins I think is risky. As you probably know a lot of guys don't use separate phones so getting strange 1 ring calls or even a short no descriptive text can raise suspicions of a weary partner. I have read 1 too many threads of guys geting caught out because a lady sent them an unsolicited txt out of hours..

VALID point.

I should have been more exact in my post.. I always return all missed calls and texts by texting ONLY.

My standard text is: Missed your call.. No more, no less.

Hope this is appropriate ? But am willing to learn, so please advise

[jammy69]

VALID point.

I should have been more exact in my post.. I always return all missed calls and texts by texting ONLY.

My standard text is: Missed your call.. No more, no less.

Hope this is appropriate ? But am willing to learn, so please advise

Sounds perfect

[crashbangwallop]

Personally I'd prefer

'Were you trying to contact/call me?'

because it's easier to say you didn't ring that number and it's a wrong number texting you.

To get a text saying 'I missed your call' kind of nails you for the fact that you definitely rang the number.

Just my own standpoint on that one!

[Shirley Joy]

After numerous calls and no answer/call back I am left assuming business is booming and you have to book 2 weeks ahead! What recession ?!

That means she's Worthing to wait and keep trying to reach her!!!

[anon361]

VALID point.

I should have been more exact in my post.. I always return all missed calls and texts by texting ONLY.

My standard text is: Missed your call.. No more, no less.

Hope this is appropriate ? But am willing to learn, so please advise

I'll be honest, I don't know, I don't approve of any contact outside of 30mins or so, no matter what is texted if a partner is already suspicious or in the habit of answering their partners phone, say if they were in the loo or shower then no matter what you put in it could land them in the shit should the partner choose to call you back. You may get an extra client or feel you are doing them a favour and probably in 99% of cases you would be but is it worth possibly ruining that 1% guy?

[Stephanie]

I don't save any ladies numbers in my phone so I could always fob it off as a wrong number if someone I don't want to see it manages to lay eyes on it!

You should also clear your call log after each call you make/receive.. easy way to go down in a burning ball of fire..

[Stephanie]

Personally I'd prefer

'Were you trying to contact/call me?'

because it's easier to say you didn't ring that number and it's a wrong number texting you.

To get a text saying 'I missed your call' kind of nails you for the fact that you definitely rang the number.

Just my own standpoint on that one!

Cool. Thank you. Am learning

[Lincoln]

I appreciate the call back but then again I'm on my own so its not like its gonna get me in any sort of trouble. I've noticed many girls call your phone and let it ring literally once to let you know you are available. I'm presuming most of the married or with partners punters use a separate phone or SIM and have the sim or phone off or indisposed when not out punting so I guess that ain't a major problem.

I'm very much in favour of the girls acknowledging your calls.

[Rodney69]

I always leave a message or text specifically saying it is OK to text me or call me back. And as Lincoln says a quick ring to let you know they are available is all it needs

[jammy69]

I appreciate the call back but then again I'm on my own so its not like its gonna get me in any sort of trouble. I've noticed many girls call your phone and let it ring literally once to let you know you are available. I'm presuming most of the married or with partners punters use a separate phone or SIM and have the sim or phone off or indisposed when not out punting so I guess that ain't a major problem.

I'm very much in favour of the girls acknowledging your calls.

I've been texted back with a simple 'Hi' - that's always harmless.

And as mentioned above, clear my call logs and, sadly, delete certain text threads.