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    I'd say it's equally as frustrating for them on occasions, they are trying to give directions to a location they may not be so familiar with to a guy who hasn't a clue. People notice different things when taking in their surroundings so I really try not to get flustered, agitation on the phone won't help the situation, if you don't understand, take a step back, deep breath, smile and say I'm lost, can we start again gorgeous.

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    Some Escorts seem reluctant to even give the name of the street they are in. Then we have the shabby developers who wont even put a name on the apartment block. Mature Abby gave me the clearest directions I have ever received.

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    Generally not bad, I think you have to forgive a certain amount, particularly where the escort is not a native english speaker, text can simplify things but many are reluctant to use text. It helps if you have some other language skills yourself. Of course I have not moved outside of Dublin for my appointments so it is easy as I know the city well.

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    I know the escorts get all sorts of phone calls but I had my eye on going to see a new escort for me, but when I phoned, her complete lack of interest totally put me off, just thought .if you can't be bothered neither can I, so moved on.
    Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "

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    Quote Originally Posted by mellors View Post
    I know the escorts get all sorts of phone calls but I had my eye on going to see a new escort for me, but when I phoned, her complete lack of interest totally put me off, just thought .if you can't be bothered neither can I, so moved on.
    Yes, this is the type of thing I was referring to, not really anything to do with bad directions. I sometimes think an escort gets used to the whole business and perhaps becomes over relaxed or blase with the mechanics of the communication. She is doing this ' x' times every day, the client may only be doing it once a fortnight or month . Its a big deal to him.Firstly, its an expensive outlay but most importantly he wants to be made feel easy and comfortable with the escort in the pre-booking communications. The signals from the interested escort should be clear ,inviting and positive. When they do not follow that path the signals can, perhaps quite innocently,become confusing which allows apprehension and doubt to creep in and given the initimate nature of a punt, this is the last thing a client wants.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doodlebug View Post
    Generally not bad, I think you have to forgive a certain amount, particularly where the escort is not a native english speaker, text can simplify things but many are reluctant to use text. It helps if you have some other language skills yourself. Of course I have not moved outside of Dublin for my appointments so it is easy as I know the city well.
    I dont answer texts nor will I give out location details by text, for all I know the guy might be a timewaster/there might be more than 1 guy/he might be a robber/ the guy might report the location to the gardai & they will know where I am working from & could cause trouble. Until I see the guy from the landmark I've given I wont give out my exact location details, you never know who's ringing you. It does make me suspicious of a guy when he is too insistent of knowing my exact location, there's no need to know that until you confirm your appointment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy Sandy 69 View Post
    I don't answer texts nor will I give out location details by text, for all I know the guy might be a timewaster/there might be more than 1 guy/he might be a robber/ the guy might report the location to the gardai & they will know where I am working from & could cause trouble. Until I see the guy from the landmark I've given I wont give out my exact location details, you never know who's ringing you. It does make me suspicious of a guy when he is too insistent of knowing my exact location, there's no need to know that until you confirm your appointment.

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    I disagree when it's a small town, I can't go into parts of Navan where I know ladies visit so one of my first questions is are they in a specific apartment block, I don't want the apartment number but if they are there it saves mine and her time by not continuing the conversation or making a booking. That said I am quite clear initially once she is not in that location I am going to make a confirmed booking and go ahead and visit her.

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    Has been pretty good. Have organized most of me appointments via pm which I find is mich easier.
    Difficulties I have had is when you the horn and try and organize an appointment when walking on the street.
    Combination of nerves, road noise and trying to talk quietly can make it quite a challenge to find out where you need to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryder View Post
    Some Escorts seem reluctant to even give the name of the street they are in. Then we have the shabby developers who wont even put a name on the apartment block. Mature Abby gave me the clearest directions I have ever received.
    Yeh, but not every can use the Aras as an incall.

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