Never!

[kidkool]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

[anon361]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

I'm sorry for your heartbreak, it is tough, but you are telling the truth, if there's money involved then there's no relationship just a business transaction..

[TheCelticDream]

ahhhh goooo on out of that.

I think love can come from it, on both sides, to be honest i dont see how one can respect the other by dating while working at this but it isnt for us to judge. maybe if u really loved them u might be able to look past it.........i dont know but what i do know is, it can happen.

whats ur problem anyway, u talk about this a lot.....its as if u would rather escorts to be robots and just have sex with no buzz.....they do genuinley enjoy some of their clients and they have feelings too......would ya believe.

[JAMESCORK]

ahhhh goooo on out of that.

I think love can come from it, on both sides, to be honest i dont see how one can respect the other by dating while working at this but it isnt for us to judge. maybe if u really loved them u might be able to look past it.........i dont know but what i do know is, it can happen.

whats ur problem anyway, u talk about this a lot.....its as if u would rather escorts to be robots and just have sex with no buzz.....they do genuinley enjoy some of their clients and they have feelings too......would ya believe.

Cant speak for your sitch Dreamer, but metinks you are living up to your name a bit...lol

These girls are priofessional lovers, girlfriends & friends. they are actresses. They learn quite fast the right things to say & the right things to do to keep you interested. Of course they will act out more with the guys they prefer as clients, its human nature. But bear in mind a regul;ar client is regular cash, its business. I have been there a number of times. But having learned the Client/Escort ropes now it amuses me when I get the ol' cliches... "You are my Favorite"... "I dont kiss the other guys the way I kiss you"... "I love you too"... etc...etc...

Its easy to get caught up in the game, and usually if you are not smart, get hurt financially and emotionally in the end... I could give you many examples of our fellow punters that have been caught, some quite seriously...

Its just a game guys... just a game...

[TheCelticDream]

Cant speak for your sitch Dreamer, but metinks you are living up to your name a bit...lol

no sitch with me to be honest mate but it does happen, rarely....but still happens.

[skywalker85]

Cant speak for your sitch Dreamer, but metinks you are living up to your name a bit...lol

These girls are priofessional lovers, girlfriends & friends. they are actresses. They learn quite fast the right things to say & the right things to do to keep you interested. Of course they will act out more with the guys they prefer as clients, its human nature. But bear in mind a regul;ar client is regular cash, its business. I have been there a number of times. But having learned the Client/Escort ropes now it amuses me when I get the ol' cliches... "You are my Favorite"... "I dont kiss the other guys the way I kiss you"... "I love you too"... etc...etc...

Its easy to get caught up in the game, and usually if you are not smart, get hurt financially and emotionally in the end... I could give you many examples of our fellow punters that have been caught, some quite seriously...

Its just a game guys... just a game...

All I can say is Well said JC,, and these girls who make ya think that they love ya and wont let ya forget them are the ones who are good at there Job, for me ive realised im not there for love im there to F**k n get outa there

[TheCelticDream]

you all have very cynical attitudes, of course it unlikey....they need to work and earn money. im sure most close them selves off while they work. but its also a pretty unsociable job....clients are their life, they spend more time with u men then their own friends on some occasions.

if you all do consider yourself but normal decent blokes why couldnt an escort break the mould once in a while?

[kidkool]

I've pretty much got rid of my page as best I can,

Its an awkward situation and I won't go into details too much...

I know escorts have feelings TCD.. Its when escorts give us "the lines" that JC mentioned..thats when it crosses the line.. I've visited plenty of escorts but playing games with someones emotions is different!!

There is a fine line of making someone feel special and then falling for them...

Reality is I fell for things she said that obviously were not true so yeah I'll be fine in a day or two but sucks all the same because it isn't fantasy, fun or a release when it crosses the line...

[Susan Glasgow]

SO, I am not human? Nor do I have feelings etc?

Thanks OP for tarring us all with the same brush!

I recently tried to have a relationship with someone - my first in about 5 years. HE chased me, and I painted everything as 'black' as possible to ensure that he knew what he was letting himself in for (He wasn't a client). I asked him if he could really accept what I was doing... Yes, he said. Could he accept that I was going to be having sex with other guys, and still be ok with and not ask me questions? Yes, he insisted....

But 2 months down the line... HE broke MY heart because he couldn't handle it.

SO don't assume that our feelings are BS please.... I AM HUMAN TOO. I have a heart and it does get hurt. I'm not a robot, and I don't BS my clients. If a client tells me he loves me, I don't reply in the affirmative - I tell him that if he says it again, then I will no longer see him...

Mini rant over.... as you were xxx

[royaler]

Look, this thread has evoked all kinds of passions and emotions on both sides of the debate, or I should really say its many sides. As both punters and escorts we all have dreams whether rational or irrational.
I know I'm one of the "elder statesmen" on the site and I'd just like to ask people to remember the words of Yeats ..... "But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams."