Originally Posted by
EbonyAmber
Escorts are humans remember. Emotions, feelings, heartbreak- we feel them too.
More than likely yes, it is a lady trying to make you feel good. Doing her job well. But it is total bollox to think love can never happen from an escort client situation. It can. However know that any woman saying she loves you but still charging you for sex is taking the mick out of you.
The issue is whether it is mutual or not.
Sorry to have broken your heart Deidre,didn't mean too. lol
I think you have to inject a bit of realism into what your you're doing punting wise, I know its not always easy. This is what keeps me sane : I'm a guy in my 40s, so so for my age. Although i see ladies of all ages, the majority of escorts I visit are in their 20s. Now, I dont go to nightclubs any more because I don't want to be arrested, but if i was to go up to any of these ladies,escorts or not, in a pub and start chatting them up ,the response I'd imagine would be 'f*ck off you old perv '. Yet, these ladies open the door to me (for which I'm eternally grateful) and greet me as if they have been waiting all their life for me to walk through the door.
They make me feel great, some more than others, I love it, but without the financial transaction....I don't think so (ladies feel free to disagree).There may be some element of friendship but thats all.
(Couldn't be bothered reading all the posts so if this has nothing to do with whats been said, ignore it)
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