Forward planning.......

[mellors]

Ta Morpheus,

You put quite a bit of work into that reply.

Always wondered why so few ladies have a PM a/c. Any ideas?

Think I've said this before, but a couple of escorts have said, that although their spoken English may be good, some find it harder writing it down or understanding English written down. May be ok for short messages via PM but would struggle with longer messages in text.

[johnsmith69]

interesting point of view there Morph
I would have thought PM or txt would be easier of any o the girls whose english is not so good (gives em more time to re-read the msg and figure it out), just a thought..

[BACMAN36]

what about google translate or babel fish. But perfect I know but better than nothing.

[Forrest]

what about google translate or babel fish. But perfect I know but better than nothing.

For the majority of escorts, I think they prefer actions(hot pictures in their profile) to speak louder than words.

Those that make the effort to converse on the forum & in chat certainly reap the rewards.

[Stephanie]

I'm a fairly obsessive sort of person and would love to plan my appointments in advance. I also know my work schedule for the months ahead so this would make it possible to make advanced bookings (eg. 1 week in advance for a lady based in Dublin or a month in advance for someone touring).

However, it doesn't always work out that way! PM is a great tool for making appointments. However, the ladies that use PM on this site are in the minority (IMHO).

There is also the difference whether it is a first time booking or a return visit. I find it's much easier to make a return booking in advance because the lady already knows me and knows that I keep my appointments and am punctual.

I find it's much harder to book in advance with someone new. Probably because many ladies have been burned by new clients booking and then not turning up. I do find that ladies who use PM are far more willing to take new bookings in advance. I think it's partly because the lady can get a sense of me from our PM communications and also check out my profile and other reviews.

Stephanie has kindly shared some insights into how an escort may view bookings. (Thanks Steph – very insightful). However, every lady is different. I’ve found that some girls don’t like to take bookings too far in advance (eg.more than a few days in advance) – I presume so that the lady has some freedom to change her own plans without being tied down to advanced appointments.

So my practice is to make return visit appointments a couple of days in advance (eg. 2-7 days) depending on the lady’s preference (which I will have gathered from meeting her before), while I’d make same day bookings with a girl I’m seeing for the first time (e.g. 2 hours in advance). The problem arises of course when the said new girl isn’t available! Then I end up phoning one of the ladies I’ve seen before to get an appointment that same day – which kind of defeats the purpose of forward planning/booking!!!

As I said at the beginning I don’t always get to book the way I’d like to book appointments! Pretty much the same with every other aspect of my life!

Dear Morpheus,

It's great to know that there Are some Gentlemen out there who do prefer the advance booking system...

I think your way is perfectly reasonable, aiming for advance, but mixing it up a bit

I realize that my way of booking may be unorthodox, but it works for me I also use pm to

arrange my meetings, as you said it o-so-useful.

I also, prefer advance bookings with even first time visitors, as I very rarely have a

cancellation and practically 0 no-shows..

[Stephanie]

I'm a fairly obsessive sort of person and would love to plan my appointments in advance. I also know my work schedule for the months ahead so this would make it possible to make advanced bookings (eg. 1 week in advance for a lady based in Dublin or a month in advance for someone touring).

However, it doesn't always work out that way! PM is a great tool for making appointments. However, the ladies that use PM on this site are in the minority (IMHO).

There is also the difference whether it is a first time booking or a return visit. I find it's much easier to make a return booking in advance because the lady already knows me and knows that I keep my appointments and am punctual.

I find it's much harder to book in advance with someone new. Probably because many ladies have been burned by new clients booking and then not turning up. I do find that ladies who use PM are far more willing to take new bookings in advance. I think it's partly because the lady can get a sense of me from our PM communications and also check out my profile and other reviews.

Stephanie has kindly shared some insights into how an escort may view bookings. (Thanks Steph – very insightful). However, every lady is different. I’ve found that some girls don’t like to take bookings too far in advance (eg.more than a few days in advance) – I presume so that the lady has some freedom to change her own plans without being tied down to advanced appointments.

So my practice is to make return visit appointments a couple of days in advance (eg. 2-7 days) depending on the lady’s preference (which I will have gathered from meeting her before), while I’d make same day bookings with a girl I’m seeing for the first time (e.g. 2 hours in advance). The problem arises of course when the said new girl isn’t available! Then I end up phoning one of the ladies I’ve seen before to get an appointment that same day – which kind of defeats the purpose of forward planning/booking!!!

As I said at the beginning I don’t always get to book the way I’d like to book appointments! Pretty much the same with every other aspect of my life!

Lol, I am putting so much thought into my post, I got timed out..

So quickly just to finish up:

As to advance bookings being limiting to the Escort: I recently unexpectedly had to travel out of country and had to cancel 3

advance bookings over three days. Because I gave sufficient notice to the Gentlemen involved, the cancellation did not cause any

discernible lol hardship for them. Since then all three appointments have been resceduled..

Of course I am not saying that there is a good way/bad way, better/worse way of doing bookings.. Each to his/her own. You have

to find whatever suits you. But if you have your heart set on a particular lady, then in my opinion advance booking would be the

way to go. If just any girl will do, then by all means I'm sure there are those where you can just fall in the door with 10 minutes

notice.. I just know my own preferences.

The silence from the girls is deafening LOL

All the best, may all your liasons be spectacular

[doodlebug]

Because I gave sufficient notice to the Gentlemen involved, the cancellation did not cause any

discernible lol hardship for them. Since then all three appointments have been resceduled..

Is that not the intention of the escort!!!! LOL

[dave1dave]

I'd be very similar to Morpheus in my style of making an appointment.

I like to make arrangements in advance.

For any lady that doesn't use Pm I would normally ring the day before to enquire about the following day, some take the appointment, but many just brush you off with the ring an hour beforehand.
But I think it may help, as when I ring on the day at least I can say that I had rung the day before and am still interested in seeing the lady.