While it is an awkward situation for sure, it is awkward for both concerned. And there's always that risk when choosing an Irish girl, that somewhere along the line you may know them or know of someone who knows them.
But in the majority of cases, you would both have something to hide and I would hope that each other's privacy would be respected. Unfortunately that is not the case and some people can be right f£$king assholes as Laura highlighted. Sorry to hear that Laura.
Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories