In a situation ?? What do ye think ?

[BruceAlmighty]

If you're enjoying it, and you are being fully honest with yourself, go with the flow.

But that's the trick, isn't it? And it's literally going to cost you...

[kelso]

we dont know you both but if your both happy then continue but are you still paying her every time?! or are you helping her in some other ways ie for rent or clothes
theres a fine line here where many guys support their girlfriends with cash for rent etc but it sounds like its still a client -escort thing to me,

[IamSimontemplar]

Hey Smurf go with the flow. Enjoy while it lasts, but remember all good things come to an end, if you are prepared to fall off the cliff face it won't come as such a shock. YOU LUCKEY BASTARD !!!!! Lol

[skywalker85]

Well not once has he mentioned girlfriend or Rship, Just Friendship, So why not, enjoy mate as long as it lasts but try not to get too attached or you might end up hurt, sounds like your getting mates rates wonder wud my Little Asian friend give me mates rates if i see her once a wk as she now lives in Belfast

[Prickly]

I see now see her once a week . We have built up quiet a friendship and either we txt or phone nearly every day now . im not doing all the running by the way ... two weeks ago she asked me to go out on a sat nite and we had lunch this week already. when it comes to the bed room she charges me half rate

Even at half rate, once a week for five months adds up to alot of cash. Of course she likes you!
Forgive my cynicism.

[scankman]

happy to throw my penny,s worth in , happened me about year & half ago beautiful filly from argentina cost me about 15 k traveled the world with her on my last holiday to mexico 10 days sun sand sex, lots of sex , paid nothing taught i was great , had sent money over to her on lots of times before i travelled taught i,d giving enough without even seeing her when i got home got the message sorry can,t do this anymore broke my bleedin heart , i taught we were past the money thing we ( I ) was in love she was in love ok but with the dollars €€€€€ , now don,t get me wrong i enjoyed the time,s we spent together but i was going to the next level ( def com 5 ) moving to argentina for 6 months of the year ( h,min tax reasons aswell ) but it was a house of cards or she was a very good juggler with my heart / balls / cock / mind and then it was over ......... so getting back to the story if your getting it now at half price ( u lucky bastard ) in these hard times count yourself lucky i,m paying full wack don,t let her pull ur heart strings , if you fall in love ( like me a sap ) hold ur balls in one hand & keep ur eye on ur wallet don,t fall into the she loves me too trap , i,l give her anything she wants, take it slow oooh ps whats this one,s name giving it away for half price give her my number lol hope i put abit of fun into ur story keep reviewing lads we need all the help we can get Scankman

[kelso]

happy to throw my penny,s worth in , happened me about year & half ago beautiful filly from argentina cost me about 15 k traveled the world with her on my last holiday to mexico 10 days sun sand sex, lots of sex , paid nothing taught i was great , had sent money over to her on lots of times before i travelled taught i,d giving enough without even seeing her when i got home got the message sorry can,t do this anymore broke my bleedin heart , i taught we were past the money thing we ( I ) was in love she was in love ok but with the dollars €€€€€ , now don,t get me wrong i enjoyed the time,s we spent together but i was going to the next level ( def com 5 ) moving to argentina for 6 months of the year ( h,min tax reasons aswell ) but it was a house of cards or she was a very good juggler with my heart / balls / cock / mind and then it was over ......... so getting back to the story if your getting it now at half price ( u lucky bastard ) in these hard times count yourself lucky i,m paying full wack don,t let her pull ur heart strings , if you fall in love ( like me a sap ) hold ur balls in one hand & keep ur eye on ur wallet don,t fall into the she loves me too trap , i,l give her anything she wants, take it slow oooh ps whats this one,s name giving it away for half price give her my number lol hope i put abit of fun into ur story keep reviewing lads we need all the help we can get Scankman

thats the test right there man! if your not sure if its really youy or the cash, try shutting off the cashflow for a while...
but on the other side, you cant forget that the girls are here for business and they are not going to drop that for a maybe/maybe not relationship
i do believe it can work i know of at least 2 couples who have made it work so he may be one of those, who knows??

[RicFlair]

I say cut the cash flow and see what happens. If she's genuine she'll continue to get in touch and see you for "relationship" type stuff. If she doesn't then you'll know.

I guess part of the problem is that Escorts are used to getting money for sex. When they start to date clients it gets messy and they ain't seeing you as a potential partner. Like how could they trust you when you first met the way you did? Plus if you want her you have to accept her job and let her do her thing. You'll have to be cool with that if you want it to work. Just my thoughts.

[sperminater]

So you essentially have a GF who you still pay? Hmmmmmmm......

You mean there married....!!!!

[Ray]

Hey smurf, sounds like your are getting attached and she is doing her job, in my opinion if it was me, i would cut to the chase and ask her what she really wants or where is it going between both of you,, then you know where you stand, better to get hurt now then 6 months down the raod, also how long before she moves on, just my opinion, you have to do whats right for you, you can be dam sure she is doing whats right for her, hope this helps in some way, best of luck

Hi all ,
First time placing a post ?
Here it goes , being seen this well estiblished escort in cork since more or less since the start of the year . I see now see her once a week . We have built up quiet a friendship and either we txt or phone nearly every day now . im not doing all the running by the way ... two weeks ago she asked me to go out on a sat nite and we had lunch this week already. when it comes to the bed room she charges me half rate .... She is a stunning girl and we get on v well .
So my question is what do ye make of it ? has any one been in a situtation like this before ??
Many thanks ........