What DO they have...

[mellors]

Grrrrr! We advertise our numbers, does that not indicate a willingness to see clients?

Apart from Lucy bombarding my inbox with 'Please come and see me again.....I'll do anything ' type PMs , I've never recieved any cold calling PMs, I've had replies to some of my threads and had chats with various escorts through that which is really nice. Take Denise and Alexa for example, I became aware of them through their posts on here, I contacted them, there was never any pressure to see them, (the revesrve, me trying to get them to come to Cork). Yes, they may be 'playing the game' through threads, but they also put a lot of effort into the Chat room and returning PMs etc. Good luck to them I say, if they want to make as much money in a short space of time, by the way they are both smart, intelligent, focused young girls. Does it make them any better than alot of other escorts out there? No.

[Lucy Chambers]

This is MY thread Chambers go and get your own....Jeeeze...


Oh Gawd I suppose if you cant beat them, then join them... now I'll never know why some girls get so popular so fast. I hope you are proud of yourself n73...lol

I have received about a half dozen of these, especially last jan for whatever reason. But there are two types of these PMs. There is the PM that comes out of the blue that is definitaely generic and sent en masse to possibly everyone, but then there is the second type that comes from a poster, usually acommpanied with a friend request, that is more personal, may contain a langer joke, and a suggestion of a meeting. I find this type polishes my ego to no end and satisfies my attention seeking compusion nicely. I have meet with two of these ladies to date, and they were luverly... Now in fear of a PM being reported these ladies will never Pm me again and my ego may suffer... damnation....

If you would like a balanced answer on why some ladies get so popular, look to yourselves. It is a little bit like the emperors new clothes. You all have your favoured reviewers. You will tend to see a girl who has been reviewed by someone whose taste you share. This then creates a domino effect. Bear in mind though, the ladies with the most reviews are not necessarily busier than ladies who have few- they are just more visable.

[nick2010]

There can be an ocean of difference between receiving a pm that 'puts the guy under pressure ' and a simply worded message that allows the guy to know that a particular escort would be happy to see him but is designed not to put him under pressure.

At the end of the day ksteve that is business and that kind of PMs (out of the blue) is MARKET and not attraction for somebody.
Unless you have been talking to somebody trough the boards, then you get to know "wee bit" of their personalities, so if that client pm you, you can reply. That's my opinion.
We can like the personality and be curios to know in person some member of here but again this decision doesnt belong to the escorts. Me personaly have no problems with clients, all them are very welcome and I treat them all with the altmost respect (I think the majority of escorts think like myself).
Should I then PM all the member and invite then to meet me "kindly"?
I dont think so.

[mellors]

Yes I do agree with you partially.
Nothing wrong when an escort identifies with some member and would like to meet him. It has different ways to approach, even through the boards is a nice place to flirt.
What I dont agree is an escort that sends pms out of the blue invinting clients to meet them. It's not because we are escorts we dont have to have manners and act as a lady, but then again it is up to the client and the escort to sort out what suit them best.
I think a nice gentleman would like to attract the woman if he has interest on her, even though she is an escort.
But, wich man wouldnt like to be invited by a gorgeous, popular, sexy escort?
I dough any will have any complain about that ... lol

I'm like putty in your hands x

[ksteve]

Grrrrr! We advertise our numbers, does that not indicate a willingness to see clients?

No. Its not about 'willingness ' anyway. I have seen plenty comments by escorts on various fora saying they would not want to see so-and-so or a particular type of guy.Escorts are human ( well, some of the time !) and whilst they might be prepared to go ahead and complete their side of the bargain, I have no doubt they they would prefer to have some type of clients than others.In my own case if I get even a sniff that the lady is in any way uncomfortable, I am outta there, willing or not.

[Lucy Chambers]

No. Its not about 'willingness ' anyway. I have seen plenty comments by escorts on various fora saying they would not want to see so-and-so or a particular type of guy.Escorts are human ( well, some of the time !) and whilst they might be prepared to go ahead and complete their side of the bargain, I have no doubt they they would prefer to have some type of clients than others.In my own case if I get even a sniff that the lady is in any way uncomfortable, I am outta there, willing or not.

But how would you know that you wouldnt want to see the client until you have met him? It would be an odd escort that based her thoughts on what was said here, I can assure you most people are far different in person, including myself. Odder and odder. Okie dokes, I shall just go off now to send a few hundred PM's and see how quickly I can humiliate myself

[ksteve]

At the end of the day ksteve that is business and that kind of PMs (out of the blue) is MARKET and not attraction for somebody.
Unless you have been talking to somebody trough the boards, then you get to know "wee bit" of their personalities, so if that client pm you, you can reply. That's my opinion.
We can like the personality and be curios to know in person some member of here but again this decision doesnt belong to the escorts. Me personaly have no problems with clients, all them are very welcome and I treat them all with the altmost respect (I think the majority of escorts think like myself).
Should I then PM all the member and invite then to meet me?
I dont think so.

I think pm'ing all the members would indeed fall into the pure 'cold calling ' category. We have no difference of opinion on this.

[ksteve]

But how would you know that you wouldnt want to see the client until you have met him? It would be an odd escort that based her thoughts on what was said here, I can assure you most people are far different in person, including myself. Odder and odder. Okie dokes, I shall just go off now to send a few hundred PM's and see how quickly I can humiliate myself

Just send one to me for starters and we'll take it from there !!

[JAMESCORK]

Just send one to me for starters and we'll take it from there !!

Luce...Dont you do it Honey... you have no need to humilliate yourself anymore after the PMs you send to me.... .. I'll PM Stevie instead for ya...you just back Honey..

PM on the way Stevo

[ksteve]

[QUOTE=lucy chambers;489343]If you would like a balanced answer on why some ladies get so popular, look to yourselves. It is a little bit like the emperors new clothes. You all have your favoured reviewers. You will tend to see a girl who has been reviewed by someone whose taste you share. This then creates a domino effect. Bear in mind though, the ladies with the most reviews are not necessarily busier than ladies who have few- they are just more visable.[/QUOTE]



Hmmmm -- did you not argue to the contrary on this with Mature Charlotte some time ago ?