ok forgive me i new
ok forgive me i new
Ok guys here is where it’s at from my point of view and I feel slightly responsible for some of this. I’m a piss taker, the majority of my posts are pisstake. But I tend to come very close to the line at times. This is dangerous posting, I agree. But the subjects of my pisstakes, I hope, are those that can take it and give back better. I would never consciously be rude or insulting to ANY member or escort. I post what I consider to be funny at times, but may not realise that others are taking offence. Ebs is a good friend of mine and I posted a silly “furry coat” thread to make light of this whole debacle. I now hope I have not made worse what was probably a lesser situation.
I came across what I considered to be an offensive post against a friend of mine and posted my objection. I do not know the character that made the post personally. Maybe in hindsight I should have PMed the individual and asked WTF. I did not. I am now of the opinion having spoken a close trusted friend that Dom was posting in jest, albeit in bad taste. I admit I did not see the jest at the onset, but now am willing to give the benefit of doubt. I do NOT believe that a ban is necessary but due to lack of communication and antagonistic aftermaths the ban was inevitable. A permanent ban is ludicrous. I think I know Ebs, and she would be equally as magnanimous.
Dom possible posted in jest, his only crime being the closeness to the bone. I have done this myself at times. I only hope he will continue to interact with us at the end of his banned term so as we can get on with the fun here. It was unfortunate but should not be deemed terminal. So let’s leave it rest. Sometimes the use of a little “lol” saves trouble.
This forum is for fun afterall…..
Ebony Amber (12-05-11), Lucy Chambers (12-05-11), n73 (12-05-11)
Thing is though, James, as you say, you come close to the line sometimes, and certain people might not feel comfortable calling you on it. Personally, I found your coat thread more vulgar than dom's comment, to be honest. Personal opinion, of course.
Let's get tooled up, blud!
Headlad (12-05-11), Lucy Chambers (12-05-11)