[QUOTE=ksteve;465240]Dont agree, sorry. I think guys like to think this sometimes. If a woman is really into you, she will find a way to get to you, dont worry![/QUOTE]
we'll agree to disagree here. some may make an effort, but i
think a lot of 'hit and miss' could be avoided if women were less defensive and covert.
men can handle rejection, somewhat-but women wont take too many risks with their more fragile
egos. (i don't tell them about the 17-27ish bit when chatting to them.)
Last edited by warmcome; 06-05-11 at 15:09.
What!!! No! Nothing is more important than pussy!!! It's what drives us men - and propagates the human race!!
I'm being flippant. On a more serious note Thomas, like yourself, I have my smug settled and married friends constantly trying to fix me up or advise me on how to land a partner! They mean well, but it has started to annoy me a bit.
I am in a difference place to them at the moment. I have pretty much given up on this whole long term relationship thing after years of trying. It was an all consuming quest for many years, but now that I've stopped trying, I am learning to be content with what I have and enjoy some of the privileges of leading a single life.
I started seeing escorts once I made this mental switch. And to be honest am quite happy with the status quo at present.
I should point out that I actually do believe in long term relationships and marriage but have come to the conclusion that it's not meant for everyone.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
It's a pain in the neck being single sometimes! Although it does leave more freedom for punting!
Morpheus (06-05-11)
Like anything really, there are Positives and Negatives to being single!! I would like to meet a nice woman and have a long term relationship alright but I'm not just picking any woman..settling for the sake of settling! I would very much like the companionship and friendship it brings as well... and...of course sex on request!!!
Negatives..Singledom means a fucking shit sex life for the most part!!! Either one night stands which at this point of my life...I've had around 100 so I have actually got to a point where I hate them (can't believe I am saying that). I would prefer sex to have meaning now...might sound like a contradiction but I prefer visiting a lady from EI than the chase of a one night stand these days!
Quicker, easier, and the thrill of a punt is just as good and generally the women on here are much better looking!! That and I know exactly what it is... sex and nothing more!!
So I'm 30 just about and single nearly 5 years pretty much now, doesn't bode well for the future from the looks of it lol
ladiesman217 (06-05-11), Morpheus (06-05-11), ThomasJ (06-05-11)