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    Im not judging a married man seeing escorts but its is ridicules to say that it is not cheating, if u are married and seeing escorts u could at least man up instead of giving some half hearted excuse that the women u actually love is ur wife and escorts are just for sex.
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    You are not technically cheating. Cheating would involve forming a new relationship and forming emotional bonds, which can lead to the breaking up of your marriage. Visiting an escort for an hours of fun and returning home to your wife a happier and better husband is over all a good thing for everyone. I personally am in a relationship-well three to be exact-and I can tell you I as a woman like the variety of dealing with different personalities. But I am not a typical female.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    You are not technically cheating. Cheating would involve forming a new relationship and forming emotional bonds, which can lead to the breaking up of your marriage. Visiting an escort for an hours of fun and returning home to your wife a happier and better husband is over all a good thing for everyone. I personally am in a relationship-well three to be exact-and I can tell you I as a woman like the variety of dealing with different personalities. But I am not a typical female.
    meeting an escort can obviously cause a break up in a marriage, hence the cheating part....going out getting drunk and sleeping with a women is also cheating. there doesnt have to be an emotional bond to consitute it as cheating.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    You are not technically cheating. Cheating would involve forming a new relationship and forming emotional bonds, which can lead to the breaking up of your marriage. Visiting an escort for an hours of fun and returning home to your wife a happier and better husband is over all a good thing for everyone. I personally am in a relationship-well three to be exact-and I can tell you I as a woman like the variety of dealing with different personalities. But I am not a typical female.
    you said it
    and thank christ for that!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    You are not technically cheating. Cheating would involve forming a new relationship and forming emotional bonds, which can lead to the breaking up of your marriage. Visiting an escort for an hours of fun and returning home to your wife a happier and better husband is over all a good thing for everyone. I personally am in a relationship-well three to be exact-and I can tell you I as a woman like the variety of dealing with different personalities. But I am not a typical female.
    Viollete that really is rubbish!!

    If you are in a committed relationship or married and you have sex with another woman other than your partner without their knowledge or consent...It is cheating!!! Full stop!!! It's not up for debate..it can't be argued..It is...What it is!!!

    Swinging on the other hand is different as it is mutual and consenting...both are there and getting sexual pleasure with the knowledge and consent of their partner!!!

    Me..I'm single so I don't have to worry about this, also... I can honestly say I have never cheated!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheCelticDream View Post
    Im not judging a married man seeing escorts but its is ridicules to say that it is not cheating, if u are married and seeing escorts u could at least man up instead of giving some half hearted excuse that the women u actually love is ur wife and escorts are just for sex.
    +1

    I think it's better than the other option, leaving your wife for another woman.

    I'm single (22 years old) and never seen an escort before so I'm a bit jealous tbh


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    Well ask yourself this, if you didnt frequent escorts would you still have a happy marriage???? everybody's different. You have to work with what works for you and not worry about what the general consensus is! Treat your wife well and I wish you happiness.

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    Okay lets try some options here in terms of defining cheating.
    1: beat the meat on your own.
    2: pay someone [male or female] to beat it for you -/+ a massage but no carnal/kissing/etc etc
    3: pay someone to shove a toy where the sun dont shine and u do the beating
    4: pay to go to a peep show shop and beat the meat while watching some porno movies.

    After all the payment is for their company, and any meat beating is ancillary

    Cheating in this context is a moral issue and the interpretation seems to dwell on whether it involves horizontal jogging in some shape or form.

    Is getting a rub down with a happy ending cheating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by euroirish View Post
    Okay lets try some options here in terms of defining cheating.
    1: beat the meat on your own.
    2: pay someone [male or female] to beat it for you -/+ a massage but no carnal/kissing/etc etc
    3: pay someone to shove a toy where the sun dont shine and u do the beating
    4: pay to go to a peep show shop and beat the meat while watching some porno movies.

    After all the payment is for their company, and any meat beating is ancillary

    Cheating in this context is a moral issue and the interpretation seems to dwell on whether it involves horizontal jogging in some shape or form.

    Is getting a rub down with a happy ending cheating?
    you're talking rubbish pal.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnycash26 View Post
    Before anyone starts i am not a troll and i am not trying to stir up trouble im just looking for ordinary decent opinions.
    I am a happily married man to a wonderful woman and enjoy a good sex life with my wife. I frequent escorts occasionaly just to have something different a bit of variety if you like.
    The question i am asking for your opinions on is i suppose is it fair to her am i demeaning my marriage and my love for her.
    i do know that i love her very much and i suppose if it was the other way around i know it would destroy me if she was cheating on me regularly.
    What are your opinions sorry to break anybodys mood but id love some opinions and thoughts on this from both punters and escorts
    It has always struck me that men and women are so incompatible sexually! Our sexual responses are different. Our need for sex over time is also different. A man's sex drive pretty much stays throughout life whereas a woman's diminishes over time (especially after the menopause).

    I'm not saying this to justify cheating, merely to try to make sense of why it is so much more common for men to visit escorts than for women to do the same.

    The adage " Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" is probably truer than we know!

    I would like to think that I'd give up seeing escorts if I ever got married. However, I'm realisitic enough to know that it will be very hard to stop no matter how dedicated a spouse I may be.
    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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