Wake me up in 50 years !!!

[Amy Alison]

Amy- I feel your pain. I believe a lot of us girls do. I'm in my hometown at the moment and taking time off. My skin is better, the chain smoking is less and I haven't had a headache in a week.

All I can do is send you a big virtual hug and kiss

Thank you Amber, your PM was an eye opener

I'm sorry you're having a bad day

Thanks Mousey, I wish it was just a day though. It takes a lot for me to complain like this

I think it's time for a career change Amy. You are a clever and intelligent lady who deserves better.
There has to be more to life than sitting in your apartment waiting for clients and having your head
melted by timewasting pimps, agencies and gobshites.

I can understand why pimps and agencies would make bogus appointments with the 'competition'
but the idiots that just want to 'get off' doing it.....wtf

You deserve so much more for your life.

Forrest, as usual, spot on. But I am not ready to consider a career change at the moment.
I will probably change the way I am operating though. And if this doesn't prove enough, I will leave the country and come back only a few weeks there and there.
Anyhow, I would say 99% of the escorts feel the way I feel, only they are probably braver and don't come crying here like I did If we all do a career change, there will be left 10 escorts in the whole Ireland and Ruhama and TORL would claim total victory in eradicating us So I'm still trying to hang in there somehow

Poor Karin, and such a nice genuine lady, I am so sorry for you

Thanks Feargal, you are a kind man indeed
I actually think that being nice and genuine are bad qualities to have in my job. I should change them to opportunistic and manipulative and then I'm sorted

You want to feel good, then try this:
Light a white candle


Break open a coconut and take half the flesh out


Run a bath water with some sea salt and white vinegar in it. Take one
half of the coconut flesh and us it as you would use soap and wash
yourself from head to toe

I will try that sometimes, Anita, I bet it will work wonders. Natural remedies are always the best.

I really couldn't do what you do. If it's any concilation it happens in other business aswell. On Thursday I drove an hour to look at a potential job, despite having phoned a couple of days beforehand to confirm, got there to find no-one there. When I phoned to see what was going on I just got a curt , oh I didn't think you were coming. Not quite the same I agree, but annoying..I was fuming driving back.

Yes, imagine the feeling multipled 5 - 10 times per day. And you cannot even take it out on someone, as he may be a genuine client and he'll get scared

Why not go for a short walk rather than just sitting in apt? even if it is only 20-30mins!

Would have to exercise, to get fresh air and relieves the boredom too!!

I do that most days lately, yesterday included. I replaced it with having a nice nap today, it did the trick anyway as I feel a little better. Don't know if I will be trying to work again today but I should be ready for tomorrow.

[Amy Alison]

I am sorry to hear about you having such an awful day Amy. Not being an escort, though I can definitely imagine how frustrating it must be to have not just one or two cancellations but more. Follow Anita's advice, do what you can to relieve the stress of a shitty day.

I am already better, had a great nap and put all my thoughts in order, thanks Rayden

[Rayden]

I am already better, had a great nap and put all my thoughts in order, thanks Rayden

That is great to hear Amy.

[Rodney69]

there was a thread started yesterday or the day before about what makes your blood boil

Amy - reading your post makes my blood boil. This behaviour is very hard to understand.

[Amy Alison]

there was a thread started yesterday or the day before about what makes your blood boil

Amy - reading your post makes my blood boil. This behaviour is very hard to understand.

As I always say it: lack of emphaty to others (which some see as the true definition of evil) and lack of respect for others.
That's how this works.

[ksteve]

I actually think that being nice and genuine are bad qualities to have in my job. I should change them to opportunistic and manipulative and then I'm sorted

Hi Amy , We have never met but I loved the honesty of your opening post and whilst there is nothing wrong with a bit of marketing , I think you would be wrong to think that being opportunistic and manipulative is the key to succces. I found your post refreshing and attractive-- personally I get turned off by silly and overly flirty posts which I see as an attempt to be manipulative. Perhaps I'm not much of a flirt myself !

I am delighted to see that you feel a bit better now -- tomorrow is always another day -- if it wasnt , we'd all be in a lot of trouble. Take care.

[realdeal]

there will always be assholes its their loss missing a great time like i had with you

[mellors]

Easy for us to say I know as clients, I hope you never become cynical and manipulative, from what I've read of your posts it wouldn't suit your personality. Must be a better way of booking appts for you.

[Amy Alison]

Hi Amy , We have never met but I loved the honesty of your opening post and whilst there is nothing wrong with a bit of marketing , I think you would be wrong to think that being opportunistic and manipulative is the key to succces. I found your post refreshing and attractive-- personally I get turned off by silly and overly flirty posts which I see as an attempt to be manipulative. Perhaps I'm not much of a flirt myself !

I am delighted to see that you feel a bit better now -- tomorrow is always another day -- if it wasnt , we'd all be in a lot of trouble. Take care.

Yeah, I am the same regarding flirting here, not my style to be flirting online.

I do flirt like mad though in my personal life, especially after a glass or two, that being the main reason I gave up drinking a long time ago. When I was leaving home after a night out with 2 or 3 guys, I knew it was time to stop

About being manipulative and opportunistic, I am not saying they are the key to success for ALL escorts. I know plenty that are very nice and well quoted. I was merely refering to the fact that I am too exposed to the bad elements if I am honest and easy to hurt, so it may be esier and more prosperous to be different for a while.

[Amy Alison]

there will always be assholes its their loss missing a great time like i had with you

Thanks realdeal, I am very happy you remember our time together.
So am I