Being able to hold a conversation with an escort

[robijntje]

I could pretend to be sophisticated and gentlemanly and all that...but truth is, I visit escorts primarily for sex. It would be a lie to pretend otherwise. And language doesn't come a whole lot into the actual sex part. There are so many non-verbal signals that more than suffice for the sex bit. I have seen escorts abroad, and have had to stick to non verbal communication in most cases. And most of those experiences have been good.
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At last, someone who is honest! You have my respect, Morpheus .

There have been threads about having a chat with an escort, going over just chitchat to deep and meaningful conversations about life, death, where we come from, and where we are going. Many people have stated that a chat before and/or after the sex is equally important, if not more important, than the sex itself.

If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat? Why is sex always mandatory? People writing reviews going into detail how bestial and godlike the sex was, and then also briefly mention that a nice chat was also included (with a few exceptions here and there ofc)...

I'm not saying that a chat is not important, mind you, but hell, saying that it's more important than the sex? Hypocrite.

What an utter load of bollocks, dog-, horse-, cat-, pidgeon-, zooshite. You visit an escort mainly for the sex, be honest about it and don't be a goddamn hypocrite in pretending it be otherwise.

As for me, the escort must speak English OR Dutch OR French OR German on a reasonable level... I'm not visiting a machine, I'm visiting a human being, thank you very much...

[ksteve]

I could pretend to be sophisticated and gentlemanly and all that...but truth is, I visit escorts primarily for sex. It would be a lie to pretend otherwise. And language doesn't come a whole lot into the actual sex part. There are so many non-verbal signals that more than suffice for the sex bit. I have seen escorts abroad, and have had to stick to non verbal communication in most cases. And most of those experiences have been good.
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Not being a sophisticate myself I am somewhat at a disadvantage here but I doubt if being sophisticated means that you have lost your libido.!

Are you saying that, other than special cases, there are numbers of guys who visit escorts primarily for reasons other than sex ? I certainly havent met any !

At last, someone who is honest! You have my respect, Morpheus .

There have been threads about having a chat with an escort, going over just chitchat to deep and meaningful conversations about life, death, where we come from, and where we are going. Many people have stated that a chat before and/or after the sex is equally important, if not more important, than the sex itself.
If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat? Why is sex always mandatory? People writing reviews going into detail how bestial and godlike the sex was, and then also briefly mention that a nice chat was also included (with a few exceptions here and there ofc)...

I'm not saying that a chat is not important, mind you, but hell, saying that it's more important than the sex? Hypocrite.

What an utter load of bollocks, dog-, horse-, cat-, pidgeon-, zooshite. You visit an escort mainly for the sex, be honest about it and don't be a goddamn hypocrite in pretending it be otherwise.

As for me, the escort must speak English OR Dutch OR French OR German on a reasonable level... I'm not visiting a machine, I'm visiting a human being, thank you very much...

Interesting --- links to the threads please ?

Correct -- a reasonable or basic level is perfectly fine. The OP does not refer to any necessity for fluency at all .

[Sam Spade]

If an escort is a chatterbox, it can be off-putting, as this distracts me from the job in hand.
I have found out that I am not multitasking as my two brains just don't work together.

What I do like however is subtle communication with the escort which can enhance and bring the experience to a higher level.

One of the best experiences I have had, was with an English lady.
Not a chatter box, but what communication there was, made our encounter sensuous, memorable and unforgettable (for me anyway).

Everyone is different, but personally as I can have sex anytime, I want an escort that no only engages my body, but also my mind and soul.

[El Gordo]

If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat?

People do, apparently. Not me, but I have certainly heard about this from escorts. Some of them find it rather creepy, to be honest.

[Forrest]

If the chat is so important, then why does nobody go for just a chat? Why is sex always mandatory?

I don't know the numbers but I am one who occasionally goes just for the chat/company of an attractive young lady. It gives a truer meaning to the Girlfriend Experience, where sex is not always mandatory.

Are you saying that, other than special cases, there are numbers of guys who visit escorts primarily for reasons other than sex ? I certainly havent met any !

How many other 'members' have you met? Maybe they just don't like to admit it.

People do, apparently. Not me, but I have certainly heard about this from escorts. Some of them find it rather creepy, to be honest.

I hope I don't ever arrange to meet an escort that finds it creepy
Actually, it's only after I have established a bit of a rapport that I would suggest a 'social' encounter anyway.
I have had some really good nights at Concerts, Opera, Cinema etc.


I have met some wonderful ladies who had very little English and, in some ways, it enhanced the experience as we had to communicate through 'interpretative dance'

[BIGTYM2010]

This comes across as a common theme in your posts.

I respect it's important to you and I'm sure you are not alone.

For me, it's a bonus to be able to communicate effectively, but I have also had very satisfying times with ladies who had little or no English, and many who I certainly couldn't have a phone conversation with.

It's worth mentioning it is important for me with a regular escort. But sometimes I just want sex.

Great reply mate,you handled this one very well,iv noticed in a lot a posts you've made you have a great way of making it clear your not disrespecting there opinion ,while also answering with your personal opinion,great poster!that's a very important quality in a forum which a lot of people don't have ,good on ya bruno69

[Bruno69]

Great reply mate,you handled this one very well,iv noticed in a lot a posts you've made you have a great way of making it clear your not disrespecting there opinion ,while also answering with your personal opinion,great poster!that's a very important quality in a forum which a lot of people don't have ,good on ya bruno69

Thank you. It's that quality that has helped me become your Taoiseach !

[GriffW]

Would you perhaps like them to add 'Conversation' to their 'favourites' in their profiles? Maybe someone could verify their Genuine conversation ability as well as their photographs? And sure while you are at it, maybe a good conversationalist escort could charge extra for her special skill!

[Jasmin]

People do, apparently. Not me, but I have certainly heard about this from escorts. Some of them find it rather creepy, to be honest.

Creepy??? I would never describe those as creepy, in my opinion is much more complex to entertain someone that is looking for more than sex.

The first overnight I had as an escort was with someone that was not looking for sex that night and of course nobody is going to have sex all night.
Overnighters specially tend to be looking for a plus in a date with an escort but seems that some people would be surprised that not everyone visiting escorts want sex

[IamSimontemplar]

Wholeheartedly agree with you but what is worse is an escort who hides behind having no English but can communicate adequately.