Morpheus (15-03-11)
Yes, very, very very sure! A Woman will never understand this sort of thing regardless of how liberal or open she is. Take EP's advice above from real life experience. This mularkey about sharing everything about oneself is a load of balls! Who wants to know everything about your partner? There will always be some secrets - and this is definitely one of them.
Even if she doesn't dump you on the spot, she'll be suspicious of you for the rest of your life!
Then again you may be a braver man than I am!
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
thanks lads
last time we were out and we had a lot to drink and we were at the stage of opening up it was getting to 50/50 whether i was gonna tell her, i changed the subject but it was a close one, bloody glad now!!
gotta slow down the pints next time and go slap some sense into myself
Not unless I was HL going out with Sweet Rachel (I like to be topical)
No, no, no, Some things are better off not talked about. You can have trust and honesty in a relationship without exposing every detail of your life.
Just to turn it round, would you mind if your new partner told you she used to be an escort, or would you rather not know ?
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "
“I wish you wouldn’t keep appearing and vanishing so suddenly; you make one quite giddy!”
“All right,” said the Cat; and this time it vanished quite slowly, beginning with the end of the tail, and ending with the grin, which remained some time after the rest of it had gone.
No I do mean braver. I like the idea of honesty in a relationship but this is one area that I will never, never divulge. Likewise should I ever cheat or have an affair on a girlfriend/wife - I won't ever tell (assuming the affairs ends). Seen and heard too many stories - where all that the revelation does is to hurt the offended partner and it never seems to end well.
While it sounds fickle, I do believe that "what she doesn't know, won't hurt her." Just make sure she never finds out!!!
Ohh..!! Watch the alcohol man! SO often what seems a great idea under the influence - is blantantly ridiculous in the cold light of the morning after!
I don't think it would make a difference if she was an escort - havent' you seen "secret diary of a London call girl"? She (Belle) destroyed the life of her then boyfriend, when she found out he was sleeping with escorts.
Of course if you met during an appointment, then its all out in the open! Happy days!
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"