Houston we may have a problem

[john connor]

recently had a bit of a domestic with her in doors and so bedroom activity dried up for a while but ever resourceful i came upon this site.
its early days but every girl so far i have met has been super.
so whats the problem u ask, well now myself and her indoors are getting on fine again but i find myself putting off sex in order to be fighting fit when i go to meet one of the girls.
sadly i am not one of these guys that can bang every day, 1-2 times a week is fine by me.
so what i am trying to work out is why am i not banging my girl now as much.
is it an early reaction to having started visiting escorts and will settle down or have any of you found yourself in a similar position.
before you assume it my girl is an ex model with good looks and body so i am a little confused.
i worry i have opened a pandoras box in me that i may not be able to close and i may become addicted to the buzz of sleeping with different women which i know is normal but with the escorts here their availabilty and service is so good it is not like going out to try to pick someone up.
do you have to set limits, or does the urge ever lesson
just wondering what are your thoughts as its wrecking my head a bit as i seem to be lining up more girls rather than less

[Violette]

recently had a bit of a domestic with her in doors and so bedroom activity dried up for a while but ever resourceful i came upon this site.
its early days but every girl so far i have met has been super.
so whats the problem u ask, well now myself and her indoors are getting on fine again but i find myself putting off sex in order to be fighting fit when i go to meet one of the girls.
sadly i am not one of these guys that can bang every day, 1-2 times a week is fine by me.
so what i am trying to work out is why am i not banging my girl now as much.
is it an early reaction to having started visiting escorts and will settle down or have any of you found yourself in a similar position.
before you assume it my girl is an ex model with good looks and body so i am a little confused.
i worry i have opened a pandoras box in me that i may not be able to close and i may become addicted to the buzz of sleeping with different women which i know is normal but with the escorts here their availabilty and service is so good it is not like going out to try to pick someone up.
do you have to set limits, or does the urge ever lesson
just wondering what are your thoughts as its wrecking my head a bit as i seem to be lining up more girls rather than less

The thrill of the chase. With the lady at home, it is the same old same old. With each new escort, there is the thrill of discovery that is no longer there in a long term relationship. YOu will have to decide what is more important to you. High flying horny sex, or the familiarity of the known?

[City Gent]

The thrill of the chase. With the lady at home, it is the same old same old. With each new escort, there is the thrill of discovery that is no longer there in a long term relationship. YOu will have to decide what is more important to you. High flying horny sex, or the familiarity of the known?

I disagree, he could manoeuvre his lady to do things he has learned from the ladies he met then they are both winners, not all escorts provide 'High flying horny sex' as we read in some reviews. I say good luck John in what should be your new quest.


CG

[john connor]

the way you phrase it violette just made me realise high flying horny sex is more important to me right now.
i am a couple of years off 40 so maybe i'm having a harley davidson moment.
christ i hope it passes

[Franken996]

John- thats a lot to digest in one sitting.. but from your SO's description you've put your finger on that old saw- No matter how hot a woman is there's a guy somewhere who's sick of her shit LOL,
You may want to consider putting limits on what you do- financially etc.. & start taking some multivitamins & perhaps Vitamin V so you can manage more than twice a week with whoever. This game is addictive so enjoy but be careful!

[john connor]

thanks franken yeah i think i am going to have to start training again and get a second job.
i agree with you it is very addictive, very very addictive!!!

[mellors]

thanks franken yeah i think i am going to have to start training again and get a second job.
i agree with you it is very addictive, very very addictive!!!

Slightly different situation but know the feeling, was married then seperated, about a year later saw my first escort. Sort of got carried away to begin with but found it did decrease after the initial kid in a sweet shop feeling. It is addictive but i think you have to try and limit it (not easy there's always another gorgeous women you want to see !)
Can't help with the wife problem I'm affraid.

[Violette]

the way you phrase it violette just made me realise high flying horny sex is more important to me right now.
i am a couple of years off 40 so maybe i'm having a harley davidson moment.
christ i hope it passes

Classic mid-life crisis. Well, seeing as how you need something to soothe your self over the imaginary image you have buried in the back of your mind as being almost past it. Sex with horny escorts is one way, buying a Ferrari is another, or consider that the lady wife is having the same issue, but from another angle?

[Legswideopen]

Classic mid-life crisis. Well, seeing as how you need something to soothe your self over the imaginary image you have buried in the back of your mind as being almost past it. Sex with horny escorts is one way, buying a Ferrari is another, or consider that the lady wife is having the same issue, but from another angle?

Good morning violette
Interesting point and mostly over looked by us males. What's your suggestions for the lady wife during her crisis

[lonely]

Good morning violette
Interesting point and mostly over looked by us males. What's your suggestions for the lady wife during her crisis

ex model wouldnt be short of offers from other fellas so she might not be having any crisis