Can you ever get back with an ex?????

[robijntje]

I dunno, there is one ex that I have forgotten about but recently she has dominated my mind again... I want her back, even if it was just as friends, but I don't think that will ever be possible...

I would say no, never, niente, but one never knows...

[mellors]

I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?

In a word..No...I don't think it works, might be alright for a while,but the original reasons why you broke up in the first place soon come back. Not sure going back to the wife is a good indicator either. Best to move on.

[charlottebabe]

I am actually good friends with an ex. Somehow for us we can be and it works. We meet up twice a year and have a lovely time laughing and chatting. Always good to see him and we both respect our current lives. The thing is we are not in love with each other any more, but 'love' each other. In other words there is no possessiveness or sexual longing.

[Fitzy]

In a word..No...I don't think it works, might be alright for a while,but the original reasons why you broke up in the first place soon come back. Not sure going back to the wife is a good indicator either. Best to move on.

I don't want to sound like a Ballox but if you split up walk this being friends doesn't work you are just kidding yourself.

[Rachel Divine]

Once we broke up I lose my interest on him...

Are soo many out there who can apreciate me much more and I can be alot more happy than with an ex back .

[Rodney69]

I don't want to sound like a Ballox but if you split up walk this being friends doesn't work you are just kidding yourself.

yep, I've only ever met one girl who I truly loved and honestly could say I'd be happy spend the rest of my life with. Unfortunately she didn't feel the same. It didn't last long. At the time I wanted to be friends, i was only fooling myself. Luckily for me it was made easier, she moved away, which allowed me to get on with my life. She's happily married now with kids and I'm delighted for her.

[magicalman9357]

I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?

I went back with my ex after a period of 6 years separation and it is going ok. Takes a lot of work but it can happen if you both want it to.

[Rodney69]

I went back with my ex after a period of 6 years separation and it is going ok. Takes a lot of work but it can happen if you both want it to.

Congratulations, very happy for you magicalman

[Stella]

Well if its just sex for U Charlotte i think its ok, go ahead...no strings attached at least U know him no suprises!!
But if its more from ur side try to be hard and maybe ignore him, u will burn urself( of course thats my experience)

[Lucy Chambers]

I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?

Yes I did and no it didn't. There will always be a time when you resent the past.