escorts;men; trust

[kelso]

But the same goes for us guys: if you know your wife/gf was an escort, would you be able to trust her?

for me yes, to a point, would you?!!

[Irish Fiona]

But the same goes for us guys: if you know your wife/gf was an escort, would you be able to trust her?

for me yes, to a point, would you?!!

Trust her with what??? Just because we are escorts doesn't mean we are sluts! This is our job, its completely separate to our private life! The question is do you trust the person not the escort!

[willyup]

For me it wouldnt be a case of trusting her more a case of whether you can deal emotionally with the fact that she is regualrly having sex with multiple different men.
Any I have met in the past seem to be able to make the distinction between "work" and a relationship.

I think it would actually be easier to deal with a relationship with a porn actress because everyone she is working with, male or female, is there doing a job whereas with an escort it is slightly different.

I think it would be ok at the start of a relationship, as long as you knew from the start what she did for a living. But as time went on and you started to care more for the girl it could become more of an issue.

But the same goes for us guys: if you know your wife/gf was an escort, would you be able to trust her?

for me yes, to a point, would you?!!

[Morpheus]

it might be a foolish question, but do the girls find it impossible to trust the men in their life because of their job, eg if they see married meen visiting them all the time? areeyas thread got me think ing about this again
ive met a few girls who cant be bothered with steady relationships because of this and the time they travel away from their guys

I think it must be really hard for a girl to maintain her faith in men after she's been in the business for awhile. I'm sure that escorts see the good, the bad and the ugly within a course of a week.

Since plunging into the melee of the escorting world, I decided to buy the box set of 'Secret diary of a call girl' (mainly because I fancy the pants off Billy Piper). Lack of trust and difficulty maintaining romantic relationships while balancing the demanding life of an escort appears to be a common theme throughout all three series.

Which is why I am always amazed and warmed when I find that so many of the escorts I meet are able to maintain such a positve attitude to life, men and relationships.

[Irish Fiona]

Most of my regular clients are in loving relationships with no sex. This could be for a number of reasons (pregnancy,illness etc)
so instead of cheating and having an affair they satisfy their needs with my service! If it was me i would prefer if my man paid for half an hour rather than find out he has developed an emotional connection with someone else.

[kelso]

Trust her with what??? Just because we are escorts doesn't mean we are sluts! This is our job, its completely separate to our private life! The question is do you trust the person not the escort!

trust that the work is separate to the emotions ie we are all human, and both the escort and the girl can easily develop emotions for a nice client

[Irish Fiona]

trust that the work is separate to the emotions ie we are all human, and both the escort and the girl can easily develop emotions for a nice client

Well for me when i walk into the room its purely professional, developing emotions just doesn't become a risk. As an escort you have to be able to do that or you would be in big trouble. Having said that i have a lovely connection with a few of my regulars, but it has never crossed my mind to imagine anything more.

[UKHeather]

You are asking this question of men who pay for sex and women who work as escorts so you are not really going to get a balanced variety of thoughts on it.
I have met escorts who have lost all trust in men because of the job, sometimes you have to remind them that men who see escorts are the minority. It's not the norm for the majority of male society.

[TiffanyTees]

Most of my regular clients are in loving relationships with no sex. This could be for a number of reasons (pregnancy,illness etc)
so instead of cheating and having an affair they satisfy their needs with my service! If it was me i would prefer if my man paid for half an hour rather than find out he has developed an emotional connection with someone else.

exactly when you have prime beef at home ,now and again its good to have a quality peace of salmon
Tiff

[jacksparrow2010]

Most of my regular clients are in loving relationships with no sex. This could be for a number of reasons (pregnancy,illness etc)
so instead of cheating and having an affair they satisfy their needs with my service! If it was me i would prefer if my man paid for half an hour rather than find out he has developed an emotional connection with someone else.

I know ill get trashed for saying but its still cheating...