Do you think escorts should express themselves more?

[Lucy Chambers]

Lucy well i had a wee incident in Mullingar stating to the dude please i am sensitive well hells bells the plunker lanched on to my nips well it is not a good thing to do to someone at 6ft Tall i blew gas

Lol Heather don't start me on the nipple thing.
..some guys seem to be searching for a radio frequency. It so makes me laugh..

''aren't they big? Aren't they lovely? Oh look, what happens if I do THIS''

[rubberlover]

Hi Jessica never one to be shy and call it as it is. Have to say I agree with you 100% and would not be concerned if an escort or indeed any female was to correct my activites with regard to her enjoyment. In fact I would welcome that interaction. I have no problem in telling an escort or partner what I like or dislike so why not the reverse. I always respect the escort during my time with her and would like to think I make it as enjoyable for her as it naturally is for me. That way it is more fun. And with Jessica that just seems to come naturally when I meet her ( not enough times in my view, just wish I could win the lotto !!!!!!).

[Harry123]

HI Jessica

You are g-spot on - it would be so cool if the escort was more pro-active and said what she liked or did not like - fair play

[scotus]

I recall a similar incident that happened to me, and my feeling at the time was that I was really pleased that the escort cared enough to point out the correct way.

To me, it gave the allure of a two-way thing, making the whole experience that more enjoyable.

[Morpheus]

Yesterday,during one of my appointments something happened that made me think.During "the action" I've stopped for a second,suggesting my client that he is not touching me on the wright place,in the wright way.The reaction amazed me a bit.He felt so offended about me telling him he was not doing the things wright,saying that nobody complained before me about that.After a bit of chatting,things went just great.
I guess that most or some of the escorts don't communicate with people,don't express themselves and don't say what they do or don't like,so he was unused with this kind of behavior.
So what do you think,should escorts communicate more,or they should just close their eyes and wait for the time to finish,just not to "offend" the client's ego?
I've picked the first option,i prefer to say what i like,in a nice way,of course!Like this,things become better for everybody.

I would be more than happy for detailed instruction from you (as you know). The more detailed the better. And have faith in me I will learn someday!

[JessicaJessy]

I would be more than happy for detailed instruction from you (as you know). The more detailed the better. And have faith in me I will learn someday!

Oh,you learn faster than you think,you've proved it!

[Morpheus]

Oh,you learn faster than you think,you've proved it!

You make me blush! Well practice makes perfect Jessy, so you are just going to have to teach me somemore. (I consider it life lessons from an expert!)

[Morpheus]

"is this your first time?"

Hey! I get that all the time!!

[JessicaJessy]

Hey! I get that all the time!!

Not all the time

[Morpheus]

Not all the time

Now I am beet red!! You are too kind.

But getting back to the thread, I really like your blog idea. So often these questions about how to treat a lady, have sex, do reverse oral, etiquette for payment etc.. get discussed on this forum. But the reality is that its mainly the guys replying and giving their opinions. Its like the blind leading the blind.

I for one really look forward to hearing what you have to say and what advice you can offer the likes of me. I appreaciate that it will be your opinion and that every woman is different. However, I think both I and many other guys will learn a lot. And the application as you have pointed out will be wider than the scope of this community.


Case in point: The thread on how to hand over money - gave very differing opinons. Mainly from guys on what we all thought you ladies liked. It didn't change my practice one bit. However, having spoken to you and getting it "straight from the horses mouth", I will now be using envelopes for transactions. I bought my first stack of small brown envelopes today! Now please don't tell me that you ladies prefer white envelopes!!