Originally Posted by
Appoline
1. On what grounds do you disagree, then?
A woman clearly explains her working practice for enquiries/ appointments.
A 'client' disrespects that, and then gets the ass ache because she did not, even in light of her clearly stated rules, pander to his ignorance?
2. So a girl says 'no texts' and does not answer her phone within two hours, nor respond to a text... Hence a poor review.
So essentially, you feel that the review at the root of this post, was ok then? That being the case, while other girls and even clients say 'anyone in their right mind would simply disregard a review like that' and yet you, would not, backs up my point about escorts opting out of the review system on a site which endorses the presence of reviews of that type.
I am unsure what exactly you imply by 'phone Nazi's posing as escorts' surely a woman who is not an escort, gains nothing by listing a phone number claiming to be such, unless of course, it is a premium rate number... and if it were so, i'm sure you'd realize before calling?
And "If you're looking for equality then maybe you should pick a more pro-feminist line of work?" I am again unsure as to your meaning here.
At first, I must assume you mean that basically, in your opinion, a girl working as an escort, has no rights, no say, no boundaries, and no control? So that saying 'I do not do this/ that' is simply there to be belittled, and abused by a 'client' should he want that thing?
If that is indeed what you meant, then that speaks for itself. If not, then please clarify.
I am in a lot of ways a feminist, and have no problems reconciling that with my escorting work, taking as I do, the clients that suit me, at the time that suits me, from the offers that suit me, and for the reaasons that suit me, and I always maintaining my right to equality, and essentially control in that role. Perhaps other women are different, I don't know.
3. Personally, I am not particularly anonymous about what I do, in so much as I cheerfully post my face and other body parts on the web, my friends, parents, and significant people all know what I do... However, I respect the discretionary aspect of my job, and that clients likely do not wish the same exposure.
But legally/ logistically, the sending phone/ number of a text message can be proved, while 'oh you sound like my dad/ husband/ boss,' is pure conjecture.
I respect your right not to leave a voice message, and can fully understand why it pissed you off that a man phoned you back... but I also fail to see why having a girl reply to a text is any less damning... If a girl sends you a text, it is forever in your phone until such a time as you, or, God forbid, your wife/ girlfriend picks up your phone, sees it and reads/ deletes it...