I do believe I'm losing the run of myself.

[Bruno69]

How much is too much ?

I've noticed lately I've been visiting ladys more and more frequently of late.

I used to see someone, maybe twice a month.
This month I've spent a grand total of 11 hours on seven seperate ocassions.

Should I be worried ?

I'm like a kid, high on sugar in a sweetshop.

You say it's not a problem cash-wise. So you don't go into debt to spend time with escorts then. However have you often decided you've spent your budgeted allowance for escorting in a month and then spent more anyway but rationalized your reasons for having that one last punt before next pay day ?

If yes, you should probably worry.

Having to rationalize your own behaviour in such a fashion is classic addicts behaviour.

And you might not be specifically addicted to sex or affection, it can just be a need to alter your mood.

It's like any addiction, and here in Dublin, we have 'drugs' of the highest grade!

And it's not so obvious to people around you.

I'm not saying all addictions are bad. I can live with mine as it happens, but I think it's good to recognize it and exercise some control over it if you can.

[dave1dave]

You say it's not a problem cash-wise. So you don't go into debt to spend time with escorts then. However have you often decided you've spent your budgeted allowance for escorting in a month and then spent more anyway but rationalized your reasons for having that one last punt before next pay day ?

If yes, you should probably worry.

Having to rationalize your own behaviour in such a fashion is classic addicts behaviour.

And you might not be specifically addicted to sex or affection, it can just be a need to alter your mood.

It's like any addiction, and here in Dublin, we have 'drugs' of the highest grade!

And it's not so obvious to people around you.

I'm not saying all addictions are bad. I can live with mine as it happens, but I think it's good to recognize it and exercise some control over it if you can.

Nice answer. As to a budget I've never set one, I've never sat down and decided this month I'm going to spend X amount.

Thinking about it, it's probably just happened this way because those must see ladys (for me)and my schedule have just matched up very well.
Anyway finito for now till late Jan.

[Monkeynut]

Cash wise its not a concern, but I like the idea of taking a break.
Think I'll try that for a few weeks. Starting on Thursday as I've a date tomorrow

Wheres the review ..... ????