Question about the dinner date???

[El Gordo]

Ah but come on now Heather for even anyone to come up of such an idea really does say a lot of a person.

I do imagine there are some really nice lonely guys out there with more money than sense who would go for the like of this, I think its really taking advantage of people. Some guys out there will do anything just to feel liked and the companionship of a beautiful woman.

What really sadden me is the thought of how anyone could take advantage of someone like that. Sitting there getting paid to sit there smile and laugh at the guys jokes and get a right big slap up meal thrown in. When privately the same woman could be sitting counting the seconds until the whole thing was over secretly laughing inside about how easy this guy was taken to the cleaners.

I think the whole thing was disgusting, talk about easy money.

Consenting adults should be able do whatever they want, as long as it doesn't harm anyone. Some of what they want may not be what you want, but that doesn't mean anyone is taking advantage of anyone else.

[JohnRambo]

Consenting adults should be able do whatever they want, as long as it doesn't harm anyone. Some of what they want may not be what you want, but that doesn't mean anyone is taking advantage of anyone else.

I totally agree but I still do think it would require I very unique person to even come up with the idea.

[El Gordo]

I totally agree but I still do think it would require I very unique person to even come up with the idea.

Look through "Client Requests" some time. You'll see that there are plenty of people into things much weirder than a quite dinner with a nice lady.

[Forrest]

I’ll never forget this, I remember reading about an escort and her friend in Ireland who decided to start an auction. The auction was for the guy who paid the most could have the “privilege” of taking both ladies out for a meal, a meal that would last at least three hours, but the punch line was there was going to be no sex at all before or after the dinner, dinner only. As far as I know there was some silly bastards who did bid. Some people really do need a very hard slap and a course of wise up tablets.

We may be talking about two different auctions, but I did bid for a 4hr dinner date with two ladies a couple of years ago. The date was to be split into 2hrs for the meal and two hrs private time. I did end up with the highest bid and would have gone ahead with the 4hr date but circumstances at the time did not allow for it. We did have a two hr encounter at some stage a few months later, and the only eating involved two naked ladies and one horny man.
If a client is happy to enjoy the company of one, two or three ladies for a meal without sex, that is his prerogative. I love the company of women and have had several 'companionship' encounters and had a great time getting to know the lady. It's not always about sex.

[UKHeather]

Ah but come on now Heather for even anyone to come up of such an idea really does say a lot of a person.

I do imagine there are some really nice lonely guys out there with more money than sense who would go for the like of this, I think its really taking advantage of people. Some guys out there will do anything just to feel liked and the companionship of a beautiful woman.

What really sadden me is the thought of how anyone could take advantage of someone like that. Sitting there getting paid to sit there smile and laugh at the guys jokes and get a right big slap up meal thrown in. When privately the same woman could be sitting counting the seconds until the whole thing was over secretly laughing inside about how easy this guy was taken to the cleaners.

I think the whole thing was disgusting, talk about easy money.

I have a couple of questions:

Why do you think that gents looking for and willing to pay an escort for platonic company are being taken advantage of?
Why would you think that the escort was secretly laughing at the client?
Why is an escort providing a no sex dinner date, disgusting?

P.S You didn't answer my last question, which was.. If an escort is providing what the client is paying for ie: a dinner date - What's the problem?

[carlos marvado]

Look through "Client Requests" some time. You'll see that there are plenty of people into things much weirder than a quite dinner with a nice lady.

Spot on El Gordo. Some of us brothers are really big into this time and companionship lark and would be disgusted by some of the depraved activities that some people request in the Client Request Forum. What the hell type of a website do they think this is anyway.

I only discovered this site because I had a function to attend and having nobody to accompany me I googled "Escorts for Dinner Parties". I found this place and the other joint across the road. I perused the ladies to see what they liked and when I found one who listed "long term" engagements and "dinner at the y", I thought to myself, yes she'll do very nicely indeed. She also listed watersports, but I told her it was a dinner party rather then a regatta, so she should dress chic rather than in sports clothing.

[JohnRambo]

I have a couple of questions:

P.S You didn't answer my last question, which was.. If an escort is providing what the client is paying for ie: a dinner date - What's the problem?

I never said for one minute Heather there was anything wrong with it what I was saying was I do think it’s a rather pathetic thing for anyone to decide they’re going to come onto a message board and devise and “auction” for the highest bidder to take her and a mate out for a slap up meal.

Here’s an even better idea, how about the same person get the feck out of bed and up for their lazy ass go get a job and work like everyone else instead of asking for a hand out to be taking for a free feed?

[UKHeather]

I never said for one minute Heather there was anything wrong with it what I was saying was I do think it’s a rather pathetic thing for anyone to decide they’re going to come onto a message board and devise and “auction” for the highest bidder to take her and a mate out for a slap up meal.

Here’s an even better idea, how about the same person get the feck out of bed and up for their lazy ass go get a job and work like everyone else instead of asking for a hand out to be taking for a free feed?

What is it with you and avoiding questions?
The lady in question, whoever she is, chooses to work as an escort. If someone books her for a dinner date, how is it a hand out?

[JAMESCORK]

I personally would not engage an Escort for more than a sexual encounter. I would consider an hour is usually enough to get the job done. But there are individuals out there that require more, and it is their prerogative to engage a young lady for any service and for any length of time that they may need. This is obviously why most profiles advertise extra hours, dinner dates and overnights for those that may want that. To be precise the term Escort denotes a partner for companionship,

But having said that I have to agree with John to an extent. There is something missing in a mans life where he has to pay a lady to simply be in her company over an extended period. We are all horny bastards and like to have sex, especially with some of the most beautiful women in the world here on this site, but to feel the need to pay large amounts just to be in their company for hours on end is a different mindset. It would be interesting to hear how an escort would truly look upon a man like this and is there the temptation to play, to maximise the time being purchased.

If such a man had the means, would an escort take advantage in certain cases? I don’t know. But the idea of opening an auction to the highest bidder does sound like this might be the case. Shouldn’t there be a set charge?

Is it disgusting? Well that’s strong language. But is it right?...Hmmm.

Finally … Is it a hand out? No..if its what the guys wants…but I wouldn’t do it.

[Forrest]

I personally would not engage an Escort for more than a sexual encounter. I would consider an hour is usually enough to get the job done. But there are individuals out there that require more, and it is their prerogative to engage a young lady for any service and for any length of time that they may need. This is obviously why most profiles advertise extra hours, dinner dates and overnights for those that may want that. To be precise the term Escort denotes a partner for companionship,

But having said that I have to agree with John to an extent. There is something missing in a mans life where he has to pay a lady to simply be in her company over an extended period. We are all horny bastards and like to have sex, especially with some of the most beautiful women in the world here on this site, but to feel the need to pay large amounts just to be in their company for hours on end is a different mindset. It would be interesting to hear how an escort would truly look upon a man like this and is there the temptation to play, to maximise the time being purchased.

If such a man had the means, would an escort take advantage in certain cases? I don’t know. But the idea of opening an auction to the highest bidder does sound like this might be the case. Shouldn’t there be a set charge?

Is it disgusting? Well that’s strong language. But is it right?...Hmmm.

Finally … Is it a hand out? No..if its what the guys wants…but I wouldn’t do it.

As I said in an earlier post, I did bid on one auction for the company of two ladies a couple of years ago. The unique selling point of the auction was that these ladies did not normally work as a duo. The hotel room & meal were to be paid for by the ladies and there were no hidden extras. We didn't actually go ahead with the 'date' because of circumstances at the time, but when I did do a duo(without food) with them a few months later, it was a spectacular two hours.

I do not agree with your comment that I have highlighted that guys that specifically pay for time and companionship have something missing in their life. The mere fact that you pay an escort for sex must also mean there is something 'missing' in your life, so are we all sad bas***ds

I have been to an opera with one of the ladies from this site and it was one of the best nights I have ever had. This particular lady is very generous with her time and I hope that she can answer the 2nd part of your comment that I have highlighted. As for being taken advantage of, I am old enough to know when that's happening, and it has never happened with any of the escorts I have visited.