Anita, would there not have been a greater probability that such people turning up, particularly late at night, could have been under the influence of drink or other substances? If they had their wits fully about them, maybe some would have thought better about appearing unannounced. Surely the practice of allowing in such callers, greatly increased the risk factors involved in the business.
Most of the clients who came unannouced always came at that time of night, they were regulars, or had been giving the address by taxi drivers; I usually stayed overnight and the place was fine, sure there were people under the influence, but what did you expect on the weekends in Dublin during the Celtic Tiger on Camden St.. A girl sometimes made more money doing the wee hours than she did working all that day,and since I wasn't there she could keep all the money, and to some that was worth the risk. Like I said there was ususally two or three other people there.
Sorry to hear that Jessie.
I don't believe anyone can believe that behaviour is acceptable and indeed the norm - I hope not.
If they cant respect you, then tell them to get lost! Its as simple as that.
If they have been a good customer in the past show them a 'red card' and let them know in no uncertain terms what will happen if they do it again.
This system can only work by mutual agreement and respect.
We all need to know the boundaries that exist, especially in our situation.
It works both ways.
If as clients we get a bad escort it seems reasonable that we can say so and leave a negative review in public. Therefore if you get a bad client, should you not also be able to say so and in turn return a bad review in public!
Subject to balances and checks of course.
If this seems harsh, perhaps e-i could initiate a system where a 'three strikes and you are out' system operates!
As I said it works both ways.
Hope the situation you described is a rare occurrence - I would hate to think otherwise.