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magicalman9357 (23-10-10)
Oh if only it was all true........
What a cruel world.....:
Why do you mock me so???
Why???
Oh what a cruel world........
"It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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samlad (23-10-10)
Says who? You? What if i were to tell you that what you might consider a lack of confidence ,another might look upon as confident?
Take a guy who is shy. What if i were to tell you that some women actually like this in a guy? Its true, some do.
Remember there is extrinsic and intrinsic confidence. Some are very confident outwardly but inwardly not all as much. Some are just good at covering their faults more.
Stop telling yourself you have confidence issues and just do things that you like doing. You will find that the more you do things you like doing ,the less of what you think about how others perceive you.
Dont confuse success with confidence either. I have seen some very successful ppl fall apart very quickly in the face of adversity that ppl of less accomplishment sailed through. Some of these ppl i have seen sail through probs werent the most outwardly confident ppl.
I think its best to see self confidence as driving along a freeway in a Ferrari. You know the power is there if you want to put the boot down anytime. Confidence is the same. Dont try to act confident all the time. Theres a time to chill and a time to pull the stops out. Thats real confidence,not the sort of cocky confidence of walking around like your shit doesnt stink type.
Sincerely,
Westside.
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