To the Single Guys who punt

[Sensual Delights]

This might sound strange coming from someone who is in the sex industry but it is my opinion anyhow.

Always look for the real thing, the one that you don't have to pay for. You will not get all the women this way, but even the chasing could be fun and will give you lovely memories and personality traits.

But if the real thing doesn't come or proves disappointing, don't stress yourself out, we are here to pick up the pieces.

It's perfect if visiting escorts give you enough confidence and patience with the women in your life.
But don't ever get to the stage that you have no interest in interacting with any women other then escorts.

Punting should be done only when too bored, too lonely, too horny (and nobody around), when trying to fulfill a sexual fantasy that normal sexual partners don't approve of, or when trying to get some experience in the sack.

Young unattached guys should punt only to get a little experience and to get themselves accustomed with a woman's body and mind, otherwise they could spend years being either too intimidated by women, either too aggressive, as they don't know how to work out their frustration. But other then that, young guys should be out having fun or at least trying to have fun.

[Doozer]

This might sound strange coming from someone who is in the sex industry but it is my opinion anyhow.

Always look for the real thing, the one that you don't have to pay for. You will not get all the women this way, but even the chasing could be fun and will give you lovely memories and personality traits.

But if the real thing doesn't come or proves disappointing, don't stress yourself out, we are here to pick up the pieces.

It's perfect if visiting escorts give you enough confidence and patience with the women in your life.
But don't ever get to the stage that you have no interest in interacting with any women other then escorts.

Punting should be done only when too bored, too lonely, too horny (and nobody around), when trying to fulfill a sexual fantasy that normal sexual partners don't approve of, or when trying to get some experience in the sack.

Young unattached guys should punt only to get a little experience and to get themselves accustomed with a woman's body and mind, otherwise they could spend years being either too intimidated by women, either too aggressive, as they don't know how to work out their frustration. But other then that, young guys should be out having fun or at least trying to have fun.

I would agree 100%

This is no way to meet an actual available lady.
It has its advantages but also disadvantages

Its no substitutue for the real thing
The thrill is in the chase and can be worthwhile

However escorts do provide a valuable service whic SD has pointed out

[nicegirlsarenice]

I dont think its that easy to meet a genuine woman these days for relationship.. single four years pretty much myself and im a young guy, decent looking and earn ok wage. isnt as straight forward as waking up one morning and deciding you want girlfriend all of sudden haha

If I met girl and we were dating and things were going well and I was starting to fall for her a bit but things were moving slowly and like most guys, well if their not getting their needs looked after they will lose interest.. sad but true!! so after while dating this particular women.. if like me you and plenty of other guys on here.. would you say f*ck it and go for punt?

I know myself that if I did go for the punt I would probably lose interest in the woman I was dating then.. maybe its just me..

Yeah but if you would lose interest in it then maybe there's no point in having it in the first place.

What you're claiming is like allowing yourself to eat your favourite food after studying, but only after studying. And saying that the favourite food gives you an "incentive" to keep studying, and if you just took the food anyway you would have no incentive to keep studying and so wouldn't.

Which is fine if that's what makes you tick. However I personally don't work that way in the current way I do things.

[espensen]

I punt cause I can't get a relationship.

[scorpio]

Some punt because the sex with their real gf/wife gets boring, but a brek up would be too traumatic for both parties, so escorts keep the man happy.

[kidkool]

Some really good points being made here...

Its teh generation Sex age. Some lads jusst want a sexual relationship from the off so any delay in that will have them wanting escorts. The days of roamncing a lady seems to have died a bit and todays younger generation just want it now, without having to work too hard to get it.

They dont seem to like the thrill of the chase anymore

Kind of is the generation sex, for ireland anyway... people are starting to open their minds and just accept people for who they are and what they like! For the most part it would seem.

Doozer above said its men who can't be bothered with the chase anymore, I would also say today's modern woman is a lot more forward and open minded and eager to get what they want and its more common to have women sleep round than men!!

Its definitely a lot more difficult to find something lasting these days so if anything that is working to escorts favour for sure!!!

[luther]

Just wondering do other single guys who punt sometimes feel that punting stops them from meeting a woman for relationship?

I ask because meeting a woman these days is near impossible for a relationship and if you have sex on tap (providing you have a few quid) does it stop you from making the effort in the dating game and settling into a relationship?

do you feel it hinders your prospects of meeting that special woman??

Not any more than previous relationships do..........

But I think people go through phases of either looking for, or couldn't be bothered with a relationship........

For me the danger is making comparisons between previous relationships and previous lovers, be they escorts or ladies I've met socially............

[kidkool]

For me the danger is making comparisons between previous relationships and previous lovers, be they escorts or ladies I've met socially............

F*CK YEAH!!!

Women hate that lol soon as you mention and ex at anytime they flip!!! definite no no!!

[Notatwork]

Its teh generation Sex age. Some lads jusst want a sexual relationship from the off so any delay in that will have them wanting escorts. The days of roamncing a lady seems to have died a bit and todays younger generation just want it now, without having to work too hard to get it.

They dont seem to like the thrill of the chase anymore

Sad if this is the case,i always found the harder i worked at anything the luckier i got,maybe i am out of touch.

[Mioux]

i think whenever money is involved with sex, it will affect your intimate relationships, on both sides.