Cheating B****rds

[punterminator]

I'm the same as you. Would never see and have never seen an escort while in a relationship..

I cheated a few times when I was a kid (like 15-18 sort of age) but never cheated in a committed relationship...

Had it done to me once - felt good!

[punterminator]

If she had a grain of self respect she wouldnt forgive either way. If a woman cheated on me she is gone and no coming back either.

I'd agree - as I said above had it done to me once. Prior to that I would have said it depended on the circumstances and when it happened I did forgive her and we tried to move on but never got back. Within a matter of weeks it was over.

5 years on and we're still the very best of friends though..

[bigladdub]

Not really. I have had plenty of married women try it on and pregnant women too which makes me sick to be honest with you.

Westside.

Fine Westie,

If we take alcohol out of the equation and presume that when attached women some on to men that it is while they are in full posession of their faculties, then whether they are married, attached or even pregnant, it is my view that they are doing what they are doing because they make a decision to do it, rather than (most) men, who just do it because it is available and/or because their ego is being massaged...

BLD

[Westsidex]

Fine Westie,

If we take alcohol out of the equation and presume that when attached women some on to men that it is while they are in full posession of their faculties, then whether they are married, attached or even pregnant, it is my view that they are doing what they are doing because they make a decision to do it, rather than (most) men, who just do it because it is available and/or because their ego is being massaged...

BLD

In some cases there was no alcohol. I reckon when an attached woman sees or meets a man she is attracted to she is more likely to just admire and let it be.If an attached guy sees or meets a woman he is attracted to he is less likely to just admire and more likely to jump.

I dont think men are bigger cheaters than women or visa versa as cheating is in the person not the sex.However i do think that it takes more restraint on a mans part not to cheat than on a womans part.

Westside.

[bigladdub]

In some cases there was no alcohol. I reckon when an attached woman sees or meets a man she is attracted to she is more likely to just admire and let it be.If an attached guy sees or meets a woman he is attracted to he is less likely to just admire and more likely to jump.

I dont think men are bigger cheaters than women or visa versa as cheating is in the person not the sex.However i do think that it takes more restraint on a mans part not to cheat than on a womans part.

Westside.

Westie,

That was my original point. I may not have made it very well. I would make one more point though, that us men (in general) think that once we have "landed" a woman, that she is not likely to stray... Therefore we sometimes take our eye off the ball in terms of effort to keep the relationship "alive". We forget sometimes that women are sexual beings too...

The difference between the sexes in my view is that men tend to cheat regardless (in general...) whereas women do it because they are bored/unhappy (in general...)

But.... it happens as much for either sex....

BLD

[rimmerguy]

I have had plenty of married women try it on and pregnant women too

Westside.[/QUOTE]

Gotta start reading more of your posts , you crack me up sometimes

[Dirty Harry]

Ok was with an escort once and she asked me if I was married or had a G/F, I said no and being a talkitive kind of chap, added that I would not visit escorts if I was involved in a committed relationship, she replied with a look of disbelief: so your telling me you have never cheated??? I said I had not..she just would not believe this and went on to say that all men were the same..I assumed this was the opinion of someone who had worked in escorting and saw a lot of men who were married and formed this assumption from her experience in that field...but no I was wrong curiously most of the women whom I have spoken to on this subject believe that men are a bunch of cheating bastards who do not have the ability to show fidelity...(please do not take this the wrong way it is in no way intended as a critisism)..so is this true????

Poggo.................

i was with one escort before and she told me that most of her clients are married men and some of them even had grandchildren .....actually quite a few escorts told me most of there clients were married... if i was in a relationship i wouldn't visit escorts and of course when you say this to some of the escort you meet they for some reason don't believe you well i would stop meeting escorts if i was serious about a lady that i met

[ber]

Yip in that case....I'm a cheating bastard. But in my own little mind I do t see it as cheating when I see an escort. Now having an afair with my secretary.... That's cheating!!!

Does my logic make sense, or am I just fooling myself.

Ure fooling ureself but sur it eases ure concsience

[Westsidex]

I have had plenty of married women try it on and pregnant women too

Westside.

Gotta start reading more of your posts , you crack me up sometimes[/QUOTE]

Yep fact,
Westside.

[JAMESCORK]

Ure fooling ureself but sur it eases ure concsience

Ok I think there are two camps here. The married man and the single man. If I were single and in a relationship it’s probably all new and lovely and cuddly and sexy. Why would I need an escort. But remember a married man can be with the same woman for many years. The newness and sexiness can wane. Even though he still loves his wife, as I do, he may still have the need for a new sexual experience. Call it greed or call it cheating, every man makes up his own mind. Single guys really cannot make judgement on long term married guys in fairness.