Could you marry an escort?

[Sensual Delights]

I have just seen this. Westside, you insult me. Nothing I do is based on deception. I invite you to take this to PM, my dear. In the meantime suffice to say that both marriage and escorting are best kept illusions.

I agree with An Don here, I don't think Westie tried to insult you.

The company of an escort, as nice and pleasant it might be, if stripped of all the refinement and pleasantries is in fact a business transaction. The beautiful girl that shares her bed with a client it is not his nymphomaniac girlfriend, she is just offering a amazingly sweet and sometimes better then reality alternative. The alternative of the real thing could be called deception by someone more cynical.

I don't think he meant deception as in fooling clients and leaving them disappointed.

At least I hope not !

[luther]

I dont know if i am wording this right here but what the hell.

Whats marriage? A continual commitment based on trust.

Whats escorting? A continual business commitment based on deception.

Both complete opposite ends of the same stick. Like i said i dont know if deception is the right word to use.

sincerely,
Westside.

No Westie, I don't think deception was the correct word to use there. I'm a single man so I don't see where the deception in on my side, and I certainly don't see where the deception is on the escorts behalf. Perhaps you're talking about the deception of a married man, this is hardly the escorts fault........

What about.........

Whats marriage? A continual commitment based on trust.

Whats escorting? A continual business commitment based on lust...........

[Lucy Chambers]

Yes, I agree SD, perhaps I am too quick to be offended. But when we are all lumped into a category, its hard to get out. But you are right.

[JohnRambo]

Can I ask, what would an escort even want to continuing working in this industry after getting married?

Really, its making a mockery of the whole principles of marriage, marriage is about commitment both body and soul to one person hopefully for the rest of your lives.

Surely there’s more to this life than making money?

[An don]

Can I ask, what would an escort even want to continuing working in this industry after getting married?

they would have to keep working on the off chance that they might meet me lol

[Lucy Chambers]

Hi John

Because, for me, putting the sexual aspect aside..

I love to travel, stay in nice places and eat in nice restaurants
I never look at a man based on his finances, so he may not be able to do this
I enjoy the freedom I have with my job, I have time and energy to pursue fun stuff
I love to meet new people, enjoy the illicit secrets we keep and like minded people are hard to find
In short..I really love my job. But I may also really love someone else..therein is the question.

I should stress, it is not about money, it is about freedom.

[JohnRambo]

Hi John

Because, for me, putting the sexual aspect aside..

I love to travel, stay in nice places and eat in nice restaurants
I never look at a man based on his finances, so he may not be able to do this
I enjoy the freedom I have with my job, I have time and energy to pursue fun stuff
I love to meet new people, enjoy the illicit secrets we keep and like minded people are hard to find
In short..I really love my job. But I may also really love someone else..therein is the question.

I should stress, it is not about money, it is about freedom.

There are other careers Lucy that enables you to do all of this and still have a meaningful committed marriage.

[An don]

Hi John

Because, for me, putting the sexual aspect aside..

I love to travel, stay in nice places and eat in nice restaurants
I never look at a man based on his finances, so he may not be able to do this
I enjoy the freedom I have with my job, I have time and energy to pursue fun stuff
I love to meet new people, enjoy the illicit secrets we keep and like minded people are hard to find
In short..I really love my job. But I may also really love someone else..therein is the question.

I should stress, it is not about money, it is about freedom.

I like all this things too . We are a match made in heaven and still no offer

[Lucy Chambers]

not that many sweetie, as to travel the way I wish then I would have to then be away from any relationship for periods of time probably unsustainable to a relationship. I have wanderlust, I'm afraid., and preferably for as long as possible I will wander. I understand your point, I tried it for myself. All I can say is that the expected is not for us all..I do hope that doesn't mean I will never meet someone who is right though. Please don't think I am abusing the sanctity of marriage, I am merely curious to the male perspectives.

[Sensual Delights]

Can I ask, what would an escort even want to continuing working in this industry after getting married?

Really, its making a mockery of the whole principles of marriage, marriage is about commitment both body and soul to one person hopefully for the rest of your lives.

Surely there’s more to this life than making money?

It depends. I am involved seriously with someone and I only offer limited escort services (it suits many clients with own commitments). This wasn't the reason I gave up escorting but thinking in perspective, I think I also felt guilty of working as an escort while a nice guy is totally committed to me.

I don't want to get married, not for a long while anyway but I think if I do get married, the probability of me working as an escort is close to zero. I will not tolerate any guy to forbid me to continue my work, I will take this decision all on my own.

Thinking about it ... maybe that's why I don't want to get married? Saying goodbye to a life style that I'm accustomed with might be a harder then I though? Same as Lucy here, I do love my shopping and restaurants. And the biggest pity ever is that I never fall for a rich guy, trust me I tried