So Much For Marriage

[luther]

A majority of these particularly men said they had reached a stage in the relationship when marriage
was expected and even though they werent really in love with their partner felt they were trapped
and couldnt back out so went through with it

I agree with most you have said but in my opinion it would be women that would rather be not be on their own and the guys go along with it to make their partners happy.....

I've been in this situation. I didn't go along with it. I respected her much more than that. I'd rather see her happy with one of the other 80% that perhaps wouldn't have had the regrets that perhaps I would have had...........

It wasn't so much the not loving her part, I did, for me it was issues with myself, my own self confidence, my uncertainty about if I was good enough for her, if I'd be a good husband, etc. etc. etc. etc.............

I let the best one ever go because I thought she's be better off without me.........

She probably is..........