Am I asking for too much?

All I want is a bit of a snog before getting down to business, and it seems to be hard to find. A lot of the ladies who advertise here offer 'french kissing' on their profiles, but when I go to see them it turns out that their definition of 'french kissing' is something along the lines of sticking their tongue out and letting you do the same.

Fair enough, not all women want to kiss (real kissing, not this childish tongue game), but it's so frustrating. All I'm after is a few minutes snogging before sex. If you don't want to do it, then don't say that you do it.

Has anyone else found this? And have you found women on here who are prepared and willing to do this, as opposed to the silly tongue business?

I should add that my oral hygeine is second to none, and I'm not the ugliest guy around, so that's not the reason.