R/ships after using escorts

[Footballmad1974]

And your partner, does she know you went to an escort? I can only go on what you've said above, you didnt seem to mention that you spoke with her about it, maybe you did... but I dont think you told her of your visit to an escort...

No.. She doesnt know.. Its fair to say I expected to be flames for the story.. I never said it was the right thing to do..

[kidkool]

Fair enough, each to their own.. any relationship I've been in I've been faithful, then again longest r-ship ive had was only about 18 months... so maybe it might be different when its after few years and have had kids.. but I hope it will remain enjoyable

[Westsidex]

I hate how women become possessive bitchy & that stage in the relationship when u both start taking each other for granted & u get sick of riding each other
dunno really(big sigh)....

Well for starters alot of guys (most of them) take way too much notice of what women say. The taking for granted bit is something both parties need to work on but i will say it happens because they rely and spend too much time with each other. I have seen ppl drop everything when they meet someone.their hobbies,their friends etc.This is a mistake. No matter who you meet i think its very very important to still understand that all the things that interest you in life shouldnt just disappear. Now there is and has to be some bit of compromise but i see no reason at all for ppl to cling to each other or be constantly breathing down each others necks.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

hard to put it into words really & its nothing to do with not being able to attract women or get a date which are rare to be honest, nothing to do with the fact that I was burned in the past in rare long term r/ships I guess its more to do with my love for women their company their beauty the way they are so different to us men! I hate how women become possessive bitchy & that stage in the relationship when u both start taking each other for granted & u get sick of riding each other
dunno really(big sigh)....

there is a huge tendency in humans to become what they envision and or think about. This is why ppl fall into a sort of rut in life and loose hope. Your focusing too much on finding someone. Stop focusing on what you dont have and stop attaching your emotions to it. All it will do is put you under pressure by making it a do or die self fulfilling prophecy.

Westside.

[fiatpunter]

I've had bits on the side, fuck buddies whatever over the years. I am amoral so it doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Although I'd lose my balls (and kids) if the mrs found out, me being able to mess around a bit has, unbeknown to her, improved our relationship in and out of bed.