Chardonnay, there's lads on here would pay you good money for that.Originally Posted by mature_chardonnay
Chardonnay, there's lads on here would pay you good money for that.
I can relate to this, I dont think its just seeing escorts thats put me off.. i think its bad experiences with women I've tried having relationships with also.
In the last year or so anytime after I was dating a woman and it didnt work out for whatever reason, the urges would build up as they do and I would visit an escort for the easy, quick option of some release and lots of fun..
At this stage now I really have lost faith in finding woman for long term r-ship, I accept it and enjoy my life as best I can everyday!sometimes this involves spending sometime with one of E-I's fine ladies!
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I would seem to be a bit older than a lot of the guys posting here on this thread. I think its sad to see that a guy is finding it hard to form meaningful relationships because of the EASY option of visiting an escort. Surely the younger punters are fucking up their lives if seeing escorts regularly. It takes from trying to make a relationship work. The – ah feck it I couldn’t be arsed making this work – attitude becomes norm because it is so easy to see the escort of your choice. Escorts can set a guys standard so high that normal relationships seem mundane. You don’t want to end up like Podge n Rodge, being an old bachelor not enjoying the qualities of family life. Jeeze tis a scary thought.
I would probably be one of these younger guys you speak of james, can I ask though if your older are you married? I ask because most of the older punters would be married or in a committed relationship, yet visit escorts?? so how are guys in that situation any better??
In my opinion married or attached guys who visit escorts are worse!!
If I meet a woman who I like and I think we click, I give things a genuine chance and try make it work, sadly it hasnt for long time now... Ive met plenty of women over the last few years and for one reason or the other its not worked out so I go visit escorts when the "need" be
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what kidkool says is both plausible and responcible. modern times will require modern solutions. this stance is based on reality and not based on the fear of 'ending up a bachelor'?
I'm curious as to the nature of your bad experience in relationships, will you elaborate here or pm me?
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hard to put it into words really & its nothing to do with not being able to attract women or get a date which are rare to be honest, nothing to do with the fact that I was burned in the past in rare long term r/ships I guess its more to do with my love for women their company their beauty the way they are so different to us men! I hate how women become possessive bitchy & that stage in the relationship when u both start taking each other for granted & u get sick of riding each other
dunno really(big sigh)....
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ya thats true Warmcome(what a username
I'd make a good husband......
ya thats true Warmcome(what a username
I'd make a good husband......
Women experience the same thing too EP, once bitten twice shy... so people put up a wall and it makes it harder to find that person. Im sure I'll meet someone, some day!! I've become more and more independent though the longer I stay single and each woman that passes me by I tend to find it harder to believe I will find my life partner...
Id like to think though that when I do meet my perfect partner I wont have a crap sex life with them, I would like to think that it would be wild and adventurous
I never understood why attached men would visit escorts, if they have a loving partner they should be open and discuss sex with their partner and explain how they feel.. rather than turning their back on it and trying to find the quick and easy answer with a different woman only damages their relationship with their partner.
;-) I have only visited one escort... A very beautiful and enthusiastic girl.. I dont see why you cant be a little more patient with finding the right girl.. put in the hard work and the long term will be great! Everyones "long term" goes through difficulties... For me after the 2nd baby arrived.. Its now 2 years on and for those 2 years the sex has been rare.. sometimes less than once a month.... I found I was making it less likely by getting annoyed and frustrated with the situation.. But my feelings for my family never changed.. Love them to bits.. ;-) I met JessicaJessy last week and at home I was less tense and frustrated and things started to get better in the bedroom more or less staight away.. maybe I just let go of something that was putting her off? Dont know.. Anyway my point is.. Stick with finding the right girl.. work hard at it.. but if you need to take action to get some relief... ^^ See one of the girls... just be discreet.. never mention it to anyone.. WIll I meet an escort again...? Answer is yes.. If I need to.. ;-)
And your partner, does she know you went to an escort? I can only go on what you've said above, you didnt seem to mention that you spoke with her about it, maybe you did... but I dont think you told her of your visit to an escort...
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