User cjf...

[littlehornydevil]

anna, got you a t-shirt for you to wear when you open the door.

[Mymisters]

anna, got you a t-shirt for you to wear when you open the door.

Could have been bigger!!

[Anna23]

Here we go again

Now seriously, this is ridiculous. I made a comment on how punters who dont keep appointments make lifes of good escorts miserable and what follows is 3 pages of Notatwork ( who I never exchanged a word with ) slandering me and other people who actually know me defending me.
All of this slander based on an accusation of me having a massive ego. I would like to know where this is coming from. I think the actual problem lies there that I'm a woman plus an escort so how do I dare to express the facts the way i see them instead of sweet talking and making you feel good about yourself no matter what - that is supposed to be my role isnt it?

I would like to thank to those who said true about me. But in general i see this being allowed to happen as a failure of mods and this forum. It is supposed to be an escort forum but this being allowed means that the forum is dominated by males and a woman doenst have the right to express herself freely without this slander following it.
No wonder escorts don't want to post here and the ones who do will never be honest in their expressions... Sad thing is that it seems that this is exactly what suits the most.

And to the guys who take the most pleasure of making other people miserable either by not keeping appointmnets or by slandering someone nicely safely anonymously on the boards -I feel sorry for you guys. If this is what you taking pleasure in then I feel really sorry for you.

[luther]

But in general i see this being allowed to happen as a failure of mods and this forum. It is supposed to be an escort forum but this being allowed means that the forum is dominated by males and a woman doenst have the right to express herself freely without this slander following it.
No wonder escorts don't want to post here and the ones who do will never be honest in their expressions... Sad thing is that it seems that this is exactly what suits the most.

I'm sorry you feel that way Anna, I really am, but a few points here...........

To say this is an escort forum is painting the picture a little askew, you make it sound like it's only for escorts, it's not, it's for everyone........

But I agree with you. It's sad that more escorts don't post here, and it's because of assholes that they don't, but what, as mods, can we do???

If we take the heavy hand we are accused of only sticking up for escorts because we work here, and not allowing members to have their say, but again I agree with you, escorts should be allowed to express themselves without the fear of attack on the forum. Anna you well know my views on getting more escorts to post here and I help them whenever I can.......

But Anna, if you start a thread here, complaining about punters and having a little rant, do you really expect to do so and not get a little back??? I'm sorry but if you are going to go on a rant about punters, some are going to rant back............

Now I've already made my feeling clear to the people you are talking about in the thread, and incase I haven't.........

Notatwork, be fair, people are entitled to their opinions here, as are you, but lets not get personal and go over board eh.........

Horneylittletoerag, you're a banned user so shut the fuck up or I'll add this profile to the same user group as all your other ones............

And Anna, when having a little rant, I think it's best not to single out people or usernames as you did with CFJ........

[nicegirlsarenice]

Why not say if he didn't keep an appointment? I think it was fair game to point that out about CFJ....

Punters can write reviews on escorts who double-booked them and give it a negative or at least a n/a.

[littlehornydevil]

luther, may i ask you a question,

what did i say wrong in this thread?

all i said to notatwork's post was "very true"

nothing nasty to anyone, so am i bit confused here.

[carlos marvado]

Let's face the facts here, it's not all Casanovas that are going visiting them.

A great life spent between the sheets:

Giacomo Casanova - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[luther]

luther, may i ask you a question,

what did i say wrong in this thread?

all i said to notatwork's post was "very true"

nothing nasty to anyone, so am i bit confused here.

But you haven't just posted in this thread have you???

Do you really want to go down this road???

Really???

[Anna23]

I'm sorry you feel that way Anna, I really am, but a few points here...........

To say this is an escort forum is painting the picture a little askew, you make it sound like it's only for escorts, it's not, it's for everyone........

But I agree with you. It's sad that more escorts don't post here, and it's because of assholes that they don't, but what, as mods, can we do???

If we take the heavy hand we are accused of only sticking up for escorts because we work here, and not allowing members to have their say, but again I agree with you, escorts should be allowed to express themselves without the fear of attack on the forum. Anna you well know my views on getting more escorts to post here and I help them whenever I can.......

But Anna, if you start a thread here, complaining about punters and having a little rant, do you really expect to do so and not get a little back??? I'm sorry but if you are going to go on a rant about punters, some are going to rant back............

Now I've already made my feeling clear to the people you are talking about in the thread, and incase I haven't.........

Notatwork, be fair, people are entitled to their opinions here, as are you, but lets not get personal and go over board eh.........

Horneylittletoerag, you're a banned user so shut the fuck up or I'll add this profile to the same user group as all your other ones............

And Anna, when having a little rant, I think it's best not to single out people or usernames as you did with CFJ........

Fair play to ye Luther. You said it as it is.
I know there isn't much mods can do about this. Its more of an issue about the system set-up. But still every effort and attempt to help is being appreciated. Thank you very very much really.

I wrote that I was angry when i posted this thread and I'm aware that such attitude will be reflected in the reactions I got from some who did recognise themselves in my expressions. So far so good.
The problem starts when the entire thread is turned into a crusade against my person by 2 people of whom one I didn't even ever met or talked to. I'm pretty sure that this would have happend even if the initial post wasnt colored with my negative affection.

Now look at this example of how this forum is set up against escorts instead of for escorts ( i suppose you didnt mean to play with words when you suggested that i suggested it being only for escorts ).
If a dude comes forward to complain that escort x wasted his time and the poor fella was waiting there in wind and rain etc... - what happens? All the other dudes come in to support him and share their experinces. Escorts wont come to slander them and it wouldnt ever happen that there would be one escort folowing this dude all over the thread attacking him.
See the difference?

Now Luther be honest with yourself and look deep down inside and you will see that you actually agree that I'm doing business here and it can be affected by what i say, so I should rather keep quiet unlike punters who are perfectly anonymous and thus can rant and slander everyone. You just said it there..that there is a difference between blokes and gals here and i dont think this attitude is right.
If I am good enough escort to maintain my business regardless my ranting about bad punters and if I have the balls then i should f***ing be allowed to do so with all the support I can get.
And if someone wants to cry about mods defending escorts, then tell him where he can go with his anonymous profile- it should be explained to people that escorts are the only ones not anonymous here and therefore should receive more protection then some anonymous username which can be changed anytime ( unlike an escort profile ).

And re naming and shaming. What does it matter? He has probably a new profile by now I didnt hurt the person in any way and i said that I dont keep any hatred against him. He could freely react and defend his point. But I had probably stated it for him already..
The reason I named him is that I've kept quiet too many times before and i dont think its fair when timewasters mess with our lives and there isnt much really we can do about it.
So i thought maybe if this wont stay an anonymous issue where guys can come forward and blame it on few disturbed individuals if I can make it public that its actually regular guys just like the poster or reviewer next to you, then I can bring it into awareness that it might be even you or half of the users here who are doing this and then maybe you could realise how it feels to the other side and maybe it will change smthg... How naive I still can be.. I keep amazing myself sometimes
I appreciate your advice on this but I would also appreciate if you leave the decision to me.
Thanks.

[Anna23]

But Anna, if you start a thread here, complaining about punters and having a little rant, do you really expect to do so and not get a little back??? I'm sorry but if you are going to go on a rant about punters, some are going to rant back............



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BTW you werent serious here, were you?

I got 3 bleeding pages of crap. Three pages in words.

Do you really think this is little?! Do you really?
I think that i could aspire for the most abused user with this score...