When you have set up an appointment, maybe flirted by email and SMS, the nagging doubt in your mind as regards the photo's (couldn't be real could they), the chance that you will click, the worry about the apartment or hotel, maybe you should have been clearer about what to expect, what the girl will wear....it's the best part of punting...and then if all goes well...and you get on with each other....the anticipation becomes the second best part....I have an appointment like this tomorrow, lots of PMs and messages beforehand....I feel like it's my first time....the expectation is even making me nervous at this point....but I would not change it