"Men who use escorts are losers"

[Cable87]

I wouldn't consider myself or anyone else that visits escorts a loser. I know I am paying a lady to be with me but most of the ones I have met have been incredibly funny, interesting and sexy. It cuts out the awkwardness of dating a woman for days, weeks, months and spending a fortune on meals, weekends away, gifts only for the relationship to end because the spark went out. When I visit an escort, that spark is always there, albeit for just an hour, and without all the nagging, complaining and compromising.

Well said Forrest, and in one tenth the space I took to say the same thing! I see it the exact same way!

[debest]

There's probably lots of different reasons why men pay for sex....and one of them is because some are losers with personality issues. Paying for sex isn't normal and if everyone here is honest they would prefer not to.

When I started this a couple of years back it was real addictive and it was a problem for me. I was uninterested in putting effort to meeting new women and a couple of relationships I've tried in that time failed miserably. I've cut my punting down to 1 or 2 times a month now which I'm pleased with. Like I said, I'm being honest saying I'd prefer not to do it....but for some reason life's not that simple.

[debest]

My god...I just wrote a serious post.....I've become everything I've ever hated....

[kidkool]

There's probably lots of different reasons why men pay for sex....and one of them is because some are losers with personality issues. Paying for sex isn't normal and if everyone here is honest they would prefer not to.

When I started this a couple of years back it was real addictive and it was a problem for me. I was uninterested in putting effort to meeting new women and a couple of relationships I've tried in that time failed miserably. I've cut my punting down to 1 or 2 times a month now which I'm pleased with. Like I said, I'm being honest saying I'd prefer not to do it....but for some reason life's not that simple.

Depends on each guys situation, if your single guy and visiting escorts like me then it can be a bit of a downer sometimes.. Its just relief though.
If I was seeing someone then their really isnt a need to visit them suppose..

[Forrest]

There's probably lots of different reasons why men pay for sex....and one of them is because some are losers with personality issues. Paying for sex isn't normal and if everyone here is honest they would prefer not to.

When I started this a couple of years back it was real addictive and it was a problem for me. I was uninterested in putting effort to meeting new women and a couple of relationships I've tried in that time failed miserably. I've cut my punting down to 1 or 2 times a month now which I'm pleased with. Like I said, I'm being honest saying I'd prefer not to do it....but for some reason life's not that simple.

All men pay for sex one way or another. Occasionally, you meet a woman, click, and are fuck buddies for a while.
But usually, you have to wine and dine a woman, buy gifts, bring her away on trips,have a regular supply of paracetamol. This all costs money.
Visiting an escort cuts out the wasted time.

[kidkool]

All men pay for sex one way or another. Occasionally, you meet a woman, click, and are fuck buddies for a while.
But usually, you have to wine and dine a woman, buy gifts, bring her away on trips,have a regular supply of paracetamol. This all costs money.
Visiting an escort cuts out the wasted time.

True forrest but there are women who will meet up for no strings as well.. you can skip out all that b.s of meals and movies and is it the right time are we going to fast etc lol

My best streak of playing the field was from using websites.. basically with a bit of charm and cheekiness most women will go for a naughty weekend away.. I'm in dublin and ive met women in sligo, longford, belfast, derry and from few other places!! had a few visit me in dublin as well which was handy !! Saying that I also had some god damn awful experiences as well, which is what put me off.. it was hit n miss to be honest...

[debest]

All men pay for sex one way or another. Occasionally, you meet a woman, click, and are fuck buddies for a while.
But usually, you have to wine and dine a woman, buy gifts, bring her away on trips,have a regular supply of paracetamol. This all costs money.
Visiting an escort cuts out the wasted time.

I'm sorry Forrest...but this statement is complete rubbish.

When you do those things, most times it's because you have feelings for the girl and her for you. I've never had any connection with an escort nor do I want to....this a business for them.

[Forrest]

True forrest but there are women who will meet up for no strings as well.. you can skip out all that b.s of meals and movies and is it the right time are we going to fast etc lol

My best streak of playing the field was from using websites.. basically with a bit of charm and cheekiness most women will go for a naughty weekend away.. I'm in dublin and ive met women in sligo, longford, belfast, derry and from few other places!! had a few visit me in dublin as well which was handy !! Saying that I also had some god damn awful experiences as well, which is what put me off.. it was hit n miss to be honest...

I agree kidkool, there are women who will meet up for no strings fun, but my days of playing the field like that are long gone. Nowadays, I prefer a sure fire hit when I want some fun, so this site is perfect for me.

[Forrest]

I'm sorry Forrest...but this statement is complete rubbish.

When you do those things, most times it's because you have feelings for the girl and her for you. I've never had any connection with an escort nor do I want to....this a business for them.

What is complete rubbish!!!
They are two separate things - wining and dining a lady friend takes time and money, unless you are extremely luck or happen to be Brad Pitt or George Clooney.
Hooking up with an escort just takes money and, these days, that suits me fine.

[kidkool]

I agree kidkool, there are women who will meet up for no strings fun, but my days of playing the field like that are long gone. Nowadays, I prefer a sure fire hit when I want some fun, so this site is perfect for me.

Yep kinda how I feel sometimes, but ya have to admit.. the chase is damn good fun thats the battle!! Once you've got what you want the excitment kinda fades lol