I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?