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@Westie

Westside, am I mistaken in understanding you? I thought you had seen some escorts socially... from reading your posts it seemed like that?

BLD

[Mioux]

Theres a thread starting inside this thread which is would you date an escort? I for one would not because its a business arrangement,now if I was dating a girl and she told me she IS an escort I would dump her, BUT if when I met a girl and she WAS an escort emm I dont know.On the other hand if I was dating a girl and she asked me have you ever paid for sex? Id say no fecking way,because I dont know any girl not in the business who would understand why guys see escorts

well all the girls are really missing out on solid relationship material in a man here!
why would you dump her? shes not worthy of a relationship with you, but its okay for you to see escorts and lie about it?

you're such a hypocrite.

[Mioux]

Why not go out with her. Remember a lot of girls are lonely and bored working in a strange country. If she offers this it is like a cry out for decent and intelligent company to break the mundane job she may have to do day in day out. Why not treat yourself and at the same time treat her to an enjoyable evening. Tse, I do.

you could also think about WHY she's alone and bored and lonely working as an escort in a strange country. Chances are pretty high she wants to be with her family and her friends, not fucking random men.
Nobody thinks, 'i know, ill move to ireland where i know nobody, and sell sex, that sounds like a fun new career!'.

you can say its none of youre business but it's worth thinking about.

[luther]

you could also think about WHY she's alone and bored and lonely working as an escort in a strange country. Chances are pretty high she wants to be with her family and her friends, not fucking random men.
Nobody thinks, 'i know, ill move to ireland where i know nobody, and sell sex, that sounds like a fun new career!'.
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Great, thanks..........

This certainly helps the arguement here that independant escorts working in this country are doing so as their own choice and of their own free will...........

Cheers for that............

[the good guy]

Why not go out with her. Remember a lot of girls are lonely and bored working in a strange country. If she offers this it is like a cry out for decent and intelligent company to break the mundane job she may have to do day in day out. Why not treat yourself and at the same time treat her to an enjoyable evening. Tse, I do.

To be honest i would love to take her out and treat her to a nice evening and a few drinks but i think i just bottled it when she asked. I told her i wwould like to see her again cause she was a lovely sweet girl so i might ask her if she fancies a night out next time.

[Dirty Harry]

To be honest i would love to take her out and treat her to a nice evening and a few drinks but i think i just bottled it when she asked. I told her i wwould like to see her again cause she was a lovely sweet girl so i might ask her if she fancies a night out next time.

why not if it was me i would i have often asked an escort out but they always said no to me they just laughed it off as a joke but don't let that put you off amigo

[the good guy]

why not if it was me i would i have often asked an escort out but they always said no to me they just laughed it off as a joke but don't let that put you off amigo

she asked me though, i wouldn't have the balls to ask even if i thought she liked me.

picture the scene, me and escort on date my first question " so hows work"?

escort with baffled look " it has its up n downs" lol

[Westsidex]

@Westie

Westside, am I mistaken in understanding you? I thought you had seen some escorts socially... from reading your posts it seemed like that?

BLD

I went out with a few, know a few socially from a good while back before i came on this site. I met one socially from here. All in all ,no regrets but i wouldnt be inclined to date an escort again. Not worth the hassle or worry in my experience anyway. Socially or just talking to an escort , i wouldnt have any probs with that as an escort is only human after all and should be treated likewise.

I wouldnt go out with an escort that does GFE. No way.

you kiss your lover, not anyone,
Westside.

[User180209]

well all the girls are really missing out on solid relationship material in a man here!
why would you dump her? shes not worthy of a relationship with you, but its okay for you to see escorts and lie about it?

you're such a hypocrite.

How's he a hypocrite? lying about seeing escorts while single (the same as lying about exgirlfriends) is hardly the same as sleeping with other men behind his back. He simply wants to know up front so he can decide if he's ok with it. What's wrong/hypocritical about that?

P.S. I'm assuming here Ric doesn't see escorts when he's going out with someone.

[Jasmin]

.. stupid things like the girl joining you in the shower afterwards, or that time she looked you in the eye for a few seconds too long, or the fact she let you stay for 2 hours when you only paid for one.. but its all BS. Even if she texts you afterwards or the next day, even if she rings you in the middle of the night when she's drunk... its all just to get you to come back because they want the safety and comfort of a "regular" and at best the only reason she shows a bit more interest in you then the others is because your half way attractive, or half way charming or you're good with your tongue

An escort doing such things, it doesn't sound professional That sounds a good way to lose a good client