Emotionally Involved

[Mioux]

Come one, all this "intimate bonding" talk is twaddle. Both sexes are quite capable of having sex with someone and not getting emotionally involved. I put it to you that the vast majority of escorts and regular punters are those types of people.

so anonymous you feel nothing while you sleep with an escort? nothing at all? to you she is just something to fuck?

I know the OP is talking about the girlfriendy feeling, but it does shock me how many men i've been with that couldnt give a fuck who i was as a human.
But thats just what escorts are, something to fuck.
if you like the girlfriend experience, my advise is to get a girlfriend the normal way.
i've had one night stands and always felt shit about it afterwards, the only justification for escorting for me (and the vast majority) is the money.

[wanted the best 69]

sorry, mouse
i am with mia on this one, mia sorry had to go through that bit with guy and the tv, christ there are some right f.......g pigs out there still

[User180209]

so anonymous you feel nothing while you sleep with an escort? nothing at all? to you she is just something to fuck?

I know the OP is talking about the girlfriendy feeling, but it does shock me how many men i've been with that couldnt give a fuck who i was as a human.
But thats just what escorts are, something to fuck.
if you like the girlfriend experience, my advise is to get a girlfriend the normal way.
i've had one night stands and always felt shit about it afterwards, the only justification for escorting for me (and the vast majority) is the money.

I'm surprised you were an escort going by your views on escorting. I'm not saying you're wrong but I would of thought most escorts prefer without the connection (while being respected of course), as it would be easier. Also I would of thought a lot would have the view of "I like sex and I could get paid to do it". Am I wrong of this assumption?

[Mousey]

so anonymous you feel nothing while you sleep with an escort? nothing at all? to you she is just something to fuck?

No no, of course the escort is a human being who is deserving of the highest respect given what the punter is proposing to do. All I'm saying is that however much a GFE is important to a punter, the relationship is only ever a temporary one, and while it's possible to fall in love with anyone, the relationship between escort and punter is primarily a sexual one.

[El Gordo]

I was also somewhat surprised. But I've never (knowingly) met another punter, while Mia has undoubtedly seen many. So if she says that's what most clients are like then I have no reason to doubt her. And, unlike most escorts who post here, she is retired and can give her honest opinion without thinking about how it might affect her business.

I am definitely not just looking for "something to fuck". On the other hand, I am definitely not looking for love. I think I'm somewhere between the extremes on this one, and that's where I plan to stay.

[Westsidex]

Come one, all this "intimate bonding" talk is twaddle. Both sexes are quite capable of having sex with someone and not getting emotionally involved. I put it to you that the vast majority of escorts and regular punters are those types of people.

Women are way better at it because its more natural to them. A woman falls in love with a guys head usually whereas alot of men fall in love with a womans looks. Of course there are exceptions but this would be the norm. By the wat who is to say that punters dont fall for the girls they meet? Its not like they are going to say it.I reckon there are alot of fucked up heads out there in guys that keep going back to girls they fall for. Remember its the girls job and any girl who is good at it will have the guy leaving thinking he is special and good and wanting to go back again.

wreck the head eventually,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

I'm surprised you were an escort going by your views on escorting.

How could she have a view before doing it? She is basing her thoughts on her previous experiences as an escort.

Westside.

[User180209]

How could she have a view before doing it? She is basing her thoughts on her previous experiences as an escort.

Westside.

I mean that it sounds like her attitude was "I need/want the money. Let's just get through this". I may be wrong but I'm under the impression the thought process is "I enjoy sex, I could get paid for doing it". I understand you won't fancy every client and some girls turn to escorting out of desperation, again I may be wrong but I don't think this is the case with Mia?

[El Gordo]

I mean that it sounds like her attitude was "I need/want the money. Let's just get through this". I may be wrong but I'm under the impression the thought process is "I enjoy sex, I could get paid for doing it". I understand you won't fancy every client and some girls turn to escorting out of desperation, again I may be wrong but I don't think this is the case with Mia?

A possibility worth considering is that Mia enjoys sex, but just not with you or me. I'm speaking hypothetically here. She has never had sex with me, but I am reliably informed that sex with me is nothing special. I don't know about you. Your situation may be different.

[ber]

[QUOTE=Westsidex;200558. A woman falls in love with a guys head usually whereas alot of men fall in love with a womans looks.

wreck the head eventually,
Westside.[/QUOTE]

Ure dead right westie this concept apparently originated in France so that when guys were gullotined
she just picked his head outta the basket stuck it up on the mantelpiece and carried on as normal.
She had the head she loved