Originally Posted by
sibbald
A lot of guys really don't get it..
It's all nothing to take personally.
She's not your girlfriend.
She's not that into you most of the time and she's not in the mood (physically or mentally) most of the time.
A lot of girls will need to use Lidocaine (numbing) for their pussy/nipples in order to entertain multiple clients or for guys who aren't been careful or considerate enough.
Ever noticed your lips/tongue been numb after a session, did you not realise what that was??
You could spending hours eating her out all to no avail. Occasionally you might be dealing with a woman who's in the mood, who's attracted to you and is sufficiently relaxed to get off but this is not common, like I said it's nothing personal.
Here's some context. The porn actress Belle Claire in an interview admitted that during a decade long career, hundreds of guys/gals, perhaps a thousand scenes she came once...