Is a 10 year age difference reasonable?

[Madgar]

I have always preferred to stay "age appropriate", which typically means withing 4-6 years. Started using the website when I was much younger and had more options. But lately, now that I'm in my late 30s, I am finding a lot of the listings for the women my age are... not exactly accurate. So I am wondering, do the late 20s ladies have any problem with men in their late 30s? Is it weird? I feel a little gross about it, but really having a hard time finding ladies in my area, my age, where the listing is accurate. I also assume if I start booking those people, might also be some "inaccurate' ages which might make them more age appropriate anyways.

[DamoEI]

I have always preferred to stay "age appropriate", which typically means withing 4-6 years. Started using the website when I was much younger and had more options. But lately, now that I'm in my late 30s, I am finding a lot of the listings for the women my age are... not exactly accurate. So I am wondering, do the late 20s ladies have any problem with men in their late 30s? Is it weird? I feel a little gross about it, but really having a hard time finding ladies in my area, my age, where the listing is accurate. I also assume if I start booking those people, might also be some "inaccurate' ages which might make them more age appropriate anyways.

Bro, are you seriously asking whether it is ok for a 30 something to have sex with a 20 something? Is this your first time interacting with humans?!

[Madgar]

Bro, are you seriously asking whether it is ok for a 30 something to have sex with a 20 something? Is this your first time interacting with humans?!

Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.

[DamoEI]

Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.

It isn't gross, and yes it is a weird personal thing. You are completely ignoring the fact that a girl may want an older man, you are purely looking at it from your own perspective.

[Noregrets]

Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.

Do you believe in freedom of choice?


All my friends are my kids ages , they are all adults in their 30s

Age is just a number

[IAmLIAm]

Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.

I get what you're saying but the 10 year difference in age varies in impact depending on the ages in question. The difference in mentality between an 18yo and a 28yo is fairly minimal (especially if the fella is the older one) make them 25/35 and it's a vast difference (completely different perspectives on life {in general}), fast forward to 34/44 an the age gap barley means anything...

As it relates to the site, these are independent, self-employed, self-motivated, professionals; so ask if they are comfortable with someone in your age range and get an answer. If it's a mental hurdle you can't overcome then stick to providers in your comfort zone (personally, I tend to want to stay in the late 20s to mid 30s, but that's a me thing...and there are some exceptions).

[Deanc91c]

Probably fine

[Noregrets]

So I'm 60s going on 30s


I only want to spend time with people who have a positive outlook and are happy out if that makes sense.

Don't care too much if there 21 or 71 as long as they have a positive outlook and are happy out. Life is too short and we have choices like grow old or die young. I dont like the die young option so i woll grow old but never grow up if that makes sense.

[IrishSarahBarra]

Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.

Don't worry about it. She'll say it if she doesn't want to see older men.

I've always liked men who were far older than I am. I'm 38 but if I were 24 and doing this, I wouldn't take any notice of someone being 40.

(Hopefully my cougar gene will set in at some point.)

[AngelsFan]

I have always preferred to stay "age appropriate", which typically means withing 4-6 years. Started using the website when I was much younger and had more options. But lately, now that I'm in my late 30s, I am finding a lot of the listings for the women my age are... not exactly accurate. So I am wondering, do the late 20s ladies have any problem with men in their late 30s? Is it weird? I feel a little gross about it, but really having a hard time finding ladies in my area, my age, where the listing is accurate. I also assume if I start booking those people, might also be some "inaccurate' ages which might make them more age appropriate anyways.

You're not dating these escorts, you're a client. They're used to an age gap. Whether it's gross or not is in your head.
In the real world an age gap of 10-15 years or more will often be looked on as gross most often by other women, this isn't the real world
You're posting on an escort site, a place that sells a fantasy so every answer is going to be that the age gap is fine.
It's up to you how you deal with it