Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.Originally Posted by DamoEI
Maybe its a weird personal thing, but I find a 10 year age gap a bit extreme typically even in dating. I never dated anyone 5 years off from. For example, a 31 year old dating a 21 year old is gross.
IAmLIAm (09-04-24)
It isn't gross, and yes it is a weird personal thing. You are completely ignoring the fact that a girl may want an older man, you are purely looking at it from your own perspective.
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Do you believe in freedom of choice?
All my friends are my kids ages , they are all adults in their 30s
Age is just a number
I get what you're saying but the 10 year difference in age varies in impact depending on the ages in question. The difference in mentality between an 18yo and a 28yo is fairly minimal (especially if the fella is the older one) make them 25/35 and it's a vast difference (completely different perspectives on life {in general}), fast forward to 34/44 an the age gap barley means anything...
As it relates to the site, these are independent, self-employed, self-motivated, professionals; so ask if they are comfortable with someone in your age range and get an answer. If it's a mental hurdle you can't overcome then stick to providers in your comfort zone (personally, I tend to want to stay in the late 20s to mid 30s, but that's a me thing...and there are some exceptions).
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Probably fine
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So I'm 60s going on 30s
I only want to spend time with people who have a positive outlook and are happy out if that makes sense.
Don't care too much if there 21 or 71 as long as they have a positive outlook and are happy out. Life is too short and we have choices like grow old or die young. I dont like the die young option so i woll grow old but never grow up if that makes sense.
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TonyB (13-04-24)
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Escorts I couldn't care less what age they are.
I nearly married twice and both times they were nearly 20 years younger than me
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Don't worry about it. She'll say it if she doesn't want to see older men.
I've always liked men who were far older than I am. I'm 38 but if I were 24 and doing this, I wouldn't take any notice of someone being 40.
(Hopefully my cougar gene will set in at some point.)
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