well the topic is not actually about me- Ive had the occasional success among many struggles with the ladies but hey I know my limitations. so its not about me,

I post on another form and there is a guy South African (not sure if that matters) who describes himself as highly intelligent but boring and lacking charisma, 5' 10 so not especially tall compared to the guys that the hot ladies seem to go for,
He wants a beautiful wife or companion, a lady who is visually highly attractive, carries herself with class and elegance, who is physically fit, can converse on a variety of topics and have a "wow" factor when she accompanies him to dinner parties and social gatherings, a lady who will make his colleagues heads turn when she enters the room.

In summary you could say he wants a lady similar to the ladies that advertise here on Escort Ireland,

Myself and the other posters are finding it difficult to provide him with any inspiration- other than he has to settle for a 6 or 7 out of 10 rather than trying to land the 10- he might settle for a 9 but nothing lower! that he has to base his partner on emotional connection and compatibility rather than looks (but he rejects these advices)

He is an intelligent guy but lacks (in his own words) charisms and charm and is pretty average looking himself- hes not built like a Springbok rugby player. " He is not good enough" he doesnt have the charm and social skills of his friends- he gets invited to the big gatherings but he doesnt have the social skills to do himself justice,

He is highly intelligent, can hold conversations about anything is financially stable but not rich,

Anyway its not happening for him with the girls or at least not with the supermodels he craves,

so my good friends- lads and lassies- how can this guy land the woman of his dreams?