Escort for in-depth lessons to improve technique (multiple sessions, Cork)

[ArcaneAlex]

I'm aware a post like this bound to draw a few comments taking the piss. This is a serious post though. Please be kind.

My request is pretty much as in title: I'm looking for escort to do sessions with on a regular basis to improve what I bring to the table for a woman in bed. Basically mentorship on my technique.

I'm not some virgin twentysomething. I had a previous long term relationship that spanned many years. Things were fairly vanilla but we were both content in the sex department as far as I could tell (she initiated often so I assume it was alright). Now i'm back dating for the first time in a decade and it seems that the world has changed dramatically. Everyone seems to have a lot of experience with many partners.

A lady friend and I are hooking up at the moment, purely for sex until we both find new relationships. Last night she happened to say something that left me reeling. I joked that our situation was great so I don't get rusty, that she's keeping me in practice. She laughed and said don't worry, no women will be won over with my skills in bed, but because of everything else i bring to the table. I responded that it was good enough for her to hit me up. She said in a very matter of fact way, that I don't need to overthink it, that most guys are average in bed like me and it's not a big deal. I couldnt resist follow up questions. She went on to say she's had better than me - much much better - and that its best to not compare with something i can never hope to match.

Suffice to say, ego is fairly bruised today. It wasn't a heavy conversation at the time. But it's been living rent free in my head. I think it stung so much because it was a light hearted conversation and she wasn't saying any of this to hurt me. There was genuinely an element to truth to her remarks.

So after a day of reflection, I think that its worth taking her feedback in earnest and working to do something about it. And I would much rather work on improving myself with a woman that is non-judgemental. I met with a few ladies on EI post-breakup and it's always been positive. However, i honestly dont think most of them would be compatible with the experience I am looking for. As lovely as they are, they are usually keen to get me off and a language barrier occasionally limits meaningful communications.

So with all that said, does anyone have any recommendations of a patient lady with good communication skills that could help me work on my technique in the bedroom? (Or any ladies that read to forum and would be up for such a task). I am based in Cork but would be up for traveling, depending on distance. I could see this as being something like 10x 1 hr sessions. Any sincere advice appreciated!