Quote Originally Posted by IrishSarahBarra View Post
Who do you have your eye on? :-) Could be either, working or not working. Pm them if you want to, there's zero harm, but maybe don't expect a reply and make it short so you haven't wasted a load of time if they don't reply.

I come here to chill. It's my only social media. I don't care who pms me, I only care when people get angry with me for not replying because they can see that I'm online, some I've seen, some I haven't.

I have a funny relationship with how I end up meeting people, sometimes I'll do everything in the world I can do so as I don't gave to meet new people, or people I haven't met in a long time, or people who I think have will have high expectations of me.

Sometimes a thing will click and I'll be in be in a mood to put myself out there and meet more people. But there's no accounting for how that happens with any one person either, my stomach just churns one way or another.

If I'm in low confidence, feeling fat, or unhorny, I'm going to pick people who I know I get along really well with, am comfortable with and who I can get horny with...because I was horny with them a couple of weeks ago, it's fresh. If I'm the opposite of that or if I have the hump with one of my regulars, I'll step out a bit more. And that's them fresh. The cycle continues...

So, don't overthink it. There could be a dozen reasons why someone isn't advertising, and they might just not be working.
I'm sure this explains a lot about yourself (warts and all) and not many would choose to do so - fair play for your honesty and anyone who knows you, briefly or otherwise will/would have a better understanding of you and JohnChef must be doing cartwheels!!!