Nervousness

[Dieve]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

[Blue60]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Very easy.

1. have a quiet discreet incall --good clear directions
2. friendly, easy pre-booking communications
3. Smile and pretend you are happy to see us
3. Wear a pair heels

[DamoEI]

"Service with a smile" is basically the first rule of doing business with the public, and for good reason. A smile goes a long, long way to putting customers at ease.

I have only encountered nervous escorts once or twice and I just try to keep things light and friendly, seems to sort it pretty quick.

[westerner04]

I was incredibly nervous for a long time after I began, and I eventually worked out that it was essentially based on feeling the pressure to perform. Like, the pressure to be the best client she’s ever met!

Ridiculous I know now, but basically I was consumed about being ‘good’. ��

I eventually wised up and focused more on picking ladies who I felt I could connect with personally. The nerves reduced as I realised that I could have a better sexual experience with a woman who I knew I actually liked, and who I felt genuinely liked my company too.

I still get nervous before a visit, but the nerves disappear pretty quickly thankfully.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Iam always nervous in my first working day after my break. I feel like i never did it before… but it’s probably more natural then lol. And what does make me less nervous? I start to be confident when you give me a feeling iam the best and there doesn’t exist any other woman untill your leaving. I need to know you like me.

But i have some guys with who iam nervous in every appoitment. But it’s probably some nice excitement. I enjoy it.

If iam nervous in sense something feels wrong inside me. I don’t meet them. The day, when i decided to meet only guys with who i feel alright, it was probably the best day in my work.

[IrishSarahBarra]

Just give me 30 mins to relax and I'm fine then.

[MidlifeCrisis]

The more relaxed and friendly the escort seems, the quicker we will be comfortable. It's easy to say "relax and be yourself" but if you can that is what works.

I think the last thing you want to do is talk about a client's nervousness - that would only make it worse.

As someone else said smiles go a long way. Some girls have a gift of chatting and breaking the ice and will find something for us to have a laugh about early on, but if that is not your personality, don't try to force it. If you manage to give the client a feeling that you are happy that he is here, that is probably the most important thing.

From what I remember, Dieve, this is not a set of skills that you need to worry about!

[TonyB]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Jokes are not silly crap. Lol

Massage would be good, I think.
And a friendly attitude.

If I think a woman is nervous, I'll chat and just be nice and friendly.
Women don't tend to be nervous, not around me, and it's not that I'm anything. I just think women tend to be better in social situations than most men.
A sexist belief perhaps, but seems right to me.

[Paddy739]

The lady should take the lead, if a fella Is that nervous the meeting will never happen, thinking about it my 1st appointment I was extremely nervous, If it’s his 1st time being with a lady it’s a venture into a whole new world where he doesn’t know the ropes.

[Blue60]

The lady should take the lead, if a fella Is that nervous the meeting will never happen, thinking about it my 1st appointment I was extremely nervous, If it’s his 1st time being with a lady it’s a venture into a whole new world where he doesn’t know the ropes.

Good point. Very few ladies do.