Nervousness

[Marmitecuff]

How do nervous punters expect us to ease their nervousness?

■ cuddling and other tender physical contact
■ chatting about their nervousness
■ chatting to distract them
■ jokes and other silly crap
■ massage and other intense physical contact
■ something else

I'm sure it's usually a combination of these, but I want to hear what works for you specifically with a bit more details. I presume the most nervous clients are too nervous to post, but maybe reading this gives them an idea to understand themselves better.

What about nervous escorts?
There's a small forum group, but no activity in it, so I wondered how you deal with it if it arises.

Great thread this.

I'm sure we all have a range of different needs, desires and ways of breaking the ice.

Personally speaking I'm not the most confident.

I'm terrible at breaking the ice and in general garbage with my own assertiveness. My first meets, I normally allow the lady to dictate the proceedings, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse.

It's quite difficult to gauge what would be best to ease my own nerves. As a general rule of thumb I tend to be near panic mode if a lady seems uninterested from the moment of arrival.

If I notice a smile from her upon greeting me, it allows me to assume she's happy to see me. So I feel slightly more at ease.

If I go through her routine I tend to notice if it helps put her eat ease.

Going with a more natural flow tends to work better with me.

Chatting, smiles, giggles are normally more my comfort zone to initiate comfort.

From that point forward having her physically engaged softly, let's me ease into things easier.

(High maintenance I know)

I don't expect this at all, but if it does happen it just sets a more natural relaxed meet.