To ask or not?

[FetishCherry]

I allways wondered how you like the girl to proceed, I am not shy to offer or to give but i am shy to ask.

Do you like to be asked to leave a review or is bettet that girl leave it on your will?

I have 2 years in ireland and maybe i would have had more reviews if i was asking for them, of course i am happy and i appreciate when i recieve a review and also like to be surprised, i remember once last year i was very close to win escort of the month being the most reviewed of the month but not enough to win, maybe becouse i didnt force it and all the reviews was recieved by surprise and on peoples will without me to ask.

Some people dont leave review without being asked and some ask me if i want them to leave a review or if they are allowed to,but still i dont think i will be able to ask for it, of course i dont think any girl will get mad or upset if see good reviews about her thats why they have reviews open.
What are the factors that makes you leave a review without being asked for?
And there is something else that wanted to ask, why some of the guys give so many details in the review as how many orgasms they had or how deep was the kiss or where was the finish is kinda awkard to read such review.
Have a good weekend! You get to know me better with such writing and also i hope i did not offend anybody is something in my head since long time.

Personally, I have never asked for reviews. My strictly personal opinion is that it doesn't matter if you have 10 reviews or 500. What matters is that they are positive. And u have plenty of positive reviews so if I would be you I would not bother, honestly .

Regarding explicit reviews versus discreet ones, I believe it all comes down to the education of the reviewer. A gentleman with good manners will never delve into intimate details; they will consider it private and intimate. Those who are more descriptive, I consider them lacking respect towards the respective escort because, with a bit of common sense, you know that women, in general, are not pleased when a man gives intimate and private details about their time together in bed. You can express in elegant and respectful words that you had an excellent experience without describing her body piece by piece and every move she made, turning it into a pornographic novel. I find it ugly, in poor taste, and cheap to be extremely explicit; it only shows a lack of education and low class.

[EllaBella]

Thank you BarryD, i am happy with all opinions and all the answers, i dont know if i want to win Escort of the month, i wouldnt know what to do with the crown haha )
I think would be nice to win once, i am not that good in competitions but i am lucky in life

I am happy to have "my boyfriends" (i call regulars like that becouse people who ask me if i have boyfriend i say yes i do have many boyfriends then i say they are in every county of ireland haha) yes do matter a lot.

Was my curiosity since long time( i really didnt know if i should ask or not) i remember i worked first 3 months without reviews open and one member sugested me to open i didnt know how this works he said i will do good and he was right, i thank him with this ocasion if he see my post.
So people are different and i envy in a good way people who have the courage to ask for what they want they have a lot to win in life i wish i could be the same.
I dont judge thats why i was opening this thread, to see different points of view and girls can learn and take what is good for them in this bussines.

I do hope i didnt offend anyone.

[TonyB]

Personally, I have never asked for reviews. My strictly personal opinion is that it doesn't matter if you have 10 reviews or 500. What matters is that they are positive. And u have plenty of positive reviews so if I would be you I would not bother, honestly .

Regarding explicit reviews versus discreet ones, I believe it all comes down to the education of the reviewer. A gentleman with good manners will never delve into intimate details; they will consider it private and intimate. Those who are more descriptive, I consider them lacking respect towards the respective escort because, with a bit of common sense, you know that women, in general, are not pleased when a man gives intimate and private details about their time together in bed. You can express in elegant and respectful words that you had an excellent experience without describing her body piece by piece and every move she made, turning it into a pornographic novel. I find it ugly, in poor taste, and cheap to be extremely explicit; it only shows a lack of education and low class.

Interesting view however I often see ladies advertise favourites such as Owo and I like to know if this is available or included.
I note many like kissing.
I like to know if a lady speaks English, enough for at least some chat
Those writing discreet reviews tend not to say anything I consider useful. In fact I'll go so far to say they just get in the way of finding the good reviews and the information I want

[TonyB]

I used to enjoy leaving reviews, but I stopped when the honest and trustworthy leaders of our community decided to brand me a criminal.

Like leaving a written confession in public

Oh no that's no good.
There is a change here and the new moderators are much better.
I think you should consider contributing again

[TonyB]

I'm often asked by escorts for reviews.
I am often asked why I didn't review like I've done something wrong and caused offence by not reviewing.
So mostly I will review and sometimes I'm just lazy.

I recently was asked to leave negative reviews for competing escorts of one particular escort.
She asked me to leave bad reviews for her friend. I know her friend and didn't like this.
I won't see that person anymore.
I think that's very poor behaviour.
She's off my favourites and won't get my business or support going forward

[Marmitecuff]

I'll drop my two cents.

Firstly, Ella, I've never met you, but I must say I love the topic.

If you would like to ask for a review, go ahead. If the person doesn't want to, normally he'll give a reason. "I'm married" "my regular would kill me" and so on. Or he may just never leave reviews.

I'm personally not a fan of being asked for a review, I'd rather let the lady know myself that I'll be doing it and I also won't leave negative reviews, just my own enjoyable encounters.

I think it's best for people to be upfront, example, if you do not want to be reached out to by a provider, make that.obvious.

Quite a lot of ladies will and do reach out if they feel you will return and why wouldn't they if they've not been told otherwise?

I'd assume we aren't all stupid enough not to realise how competitive this industry is and difficult to navigate.

I personally look at the review system as a catalogue and a strong guide to some extent for what the provider actually provides.

Some like explicit interviews, some don't. It's a horses for courses kind of event. Don't want something? Communicate that point.

I know some providers frown upon explicit reviews, after all why wouldn't they? That's not what they want made noted, but rather just the encounter over all.

Others do want explicit reviews and would prefer it to be noted what it's like, the raunchy side.

Each individual provider is using this platform in one way or another (the forum, the profile, the images, the vids, the reviews) as some form of selling point, your market, your store.


Communicate these things. Do not tell a lady you will review them and then don't, especially if you know it's something to them that is important.

The review system is for your experience, not to control or use to tarnish someone just because you aren't happy about a damn text.


Some providers don't give a fuck about reviews, some genuinely love them.

A review is not only a good tool for us to use as a guide, but it can be uplifting and even empowering to each individual provider, after all, we are all people whom have different choices and preferences. If you don't like reviewing then don't say you will.

If you didn't enjoy an experience and get asked for a review, be honest and move the fuck on.

.if you had a good time and enjoy reviewing tell the lady.

It can also be a confidence booster and a good guage for her and her service if you do it that way.


Reviews should be 100% genuine.

Also, I'm going to take a free shot because it's easy.

Mr Tony, how can you only be 3* for overall experience of you where 5* satisfied.

Sounds to me like you're so confused by your own experience that you're contradicting yourself.

"Who's your daddy"

Marmite baby, love me or hate me like the review system some of you rate me.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Interesting view however I often see ladies advertise favourites such as Owo and I like to know if this is available or included.
I note many like kissing.
I like to know if a lady speaks English, enough for at least some chat
Those writing discreet reviews tend not to say anything I consider useful. In fact I'll go so far to say they just get in the way of finding the good reviews and the information I want

I can’t agree. Every client is different. I can promisse like everyone will have a great time with me but i will never promisse anything specific as it’s not possible to promisse it before. The best actor can’t compete with someone who does it naturally.

I love when i get a text with introduction and asking about appoitment. No specific dettails. Mostly i cancel my appoitments if someone start to text me his expectations, favourites or even outfits. I always reply let’s be surprised and if he continues, than i cancel.

To be honest someone who gives a text without any details about service is someone with who i like to spend my time. The worst when someone start to tell me what i should do in our appoitment. I absolutely block myself in next minutes.

Clients who text a list of favourites don’t expect girlfriend experience. And also it’s not girlfriend experience at all!

[64west]

Hahhaa, the “My regular would kill me” is hilarious. Such an Irish thing to think that.
Your spouse or GF would kill you. Your regular treat, maybe just a clip around the ear 😂

[FetishCherry]

Interesting view however I often see ladies advertise favourites such as Owo and I like to know if this is available or included.
I note many like kissing.
I like to know if a lady speaks English, enough for at least some chat
Those writing discreet reviews tend not to say anything I consider useful. In fact I'll go so far to say they just get in the way of finding the good reviews and the information I want

I believe I was misunderstood. Allow me to clarify: when I mentioned "explicit," I was not referring to reviews that mention services that were advertised but not actually offered. In such cases, it is normal and advisable to warn other potential clients if a girl lies about her services
Even this is debatable because I offer OWO, but if a client comes to me with cheese around his c..... and refuses to wash, I will not do it. Or, fk, I love it, but if his breath smells very bad that I feel to vomit again, I will not do it. I was primarily thinking about the type of reviews where individuals describe in detail the entire appointment, including positions and " how she looked from behind", which are not expected from a grown man or guys who write things like "I pushed my. C.. in her throat and she swallowed every drop" or "she handled it well, a hard pumping," along with other vulgar comments. I hope you understand what I'm referring to.

Once, I encountered a reviewer whose reviews disgusted me to the point of revulsion. Essentially, he described how he forced the young girl, even though it was evident from her expression that she did not like it. He continued to force himself upon her and held her tightly to the back of the head when he came to ensure "not a single drop was spilled." If this is the type of review that provides any insight to other clients, then it means I am in the wrong profession

[kiran160797]

That's absolutely true Dieve 👌