Treat Her With Respect

[MrTony]

I have to put pen to paper on this thread I'm raising ....Why are there so many reviews that say " Lads , treat her with respect ". Is this just common decent day to day normal way to conduct oneself. And then it's usually followed by and you will get it back in spades .
My opinion us we treat everyone with respect and expect respect ..it shouldn't be a transaction.
What defines respect ? If your escort doesn't have a favourite that you want or like to do don't visit as it's disrespectful to show up and be demanding and make your lady uneasy .
Some escorts may like their client to do things to them that they find pleasurable or submissive and that's respectful as its consentual, others may find it degrading or hurtful but it's not to say one is respectful and the other is not .
But I don't think we need to broadcast it in our reviews to treat a lady with respect and you'll get loads back .
Just be yourself and see what happens .It's a journey not a regime.
Rant Over..thanks for listening

[TommyH123]

right up there with:

"We made love"

and

"I think she enjoyed it as much as me"

[Palatine]

I have to put pen to paper on this thread I'm raising ....Why are there so many reviews that say " Lads , treat her with respect ". Is this just common decent day to day normal way to conduct oneself. And then it's usually followed by and you will get it back in spades .
My opinion us we treat everyone with respect and expect respect ..it shouldn't be a transaction.
What defines respect ? If your escort doesn't have a favourite that you want or like to do don't visit as it's disrespectful to show up and be demanding and make your lady uneasy .
Some escorts may like their client to do things to them that they find pleasurable or submissive and that's respectful as its consentual, others may find it degrading or hurtful but it's not to say one is respectful and the other is not .
But I don't think we need to broadcast it in our reviews to treat a lady with respect and you'll get loads back .
Just be yourself and see what happens .It's a journey not a regime.
Rant Over..thanks for listening

Self-justification is a psychological mechanism that helps individuals preserve their self-image and protect their ego. People naturally tend to rationalise their thoughts, behaviours, and actions to maintain a positive view of themselves.

"Treat her with respect" sends the message that "I'm a good guy, I respected this lady", and maybe for some guys it scratches an itchy guilt that they paid someone, who would not do it otherwise, to have sex with them.

The "and she'll give it back in spades" part just makes the whole sentence sound less controlling, jealous or pimpy than "Lads, treat her with respect".

[PhilPhilPhil]

It is redundant if we assume everyone deserves respect and we all try to show respect at all times.
Therefore someone writing it down nearly suggests that they don't respect all escorts, just certain ones who tick certain boxes, which could be a massive red flag.

But that's reading too much into it, it's just one of those empty sayings as mentioned above it's to make them feel good or seem like good guys, or it's just filler in a review - it's the same as people who say ''honestly'' every few sentences. Are we to consider everything they say 'dishonest' if they forget to add this caveat? Both are unnecessary.

As for ''I think she enjoyed it as much as me'' it always makes me laugh - or any of the variants, ''I could tell she had a great time'' is another, always reminds me of what someone else from here joked ''I nearly enjoyed it as much as she did''. There's a tremendous amount of self-delusion at play there, but sure it's a fantasy situation after all, the fantasy sometimes carries on into the review.

[philipkntz]

When I see that in a review, I tent to avoid. Not that I'm disrespectful, but I've learned that it tends to be associated with poor service

[Dieve]

Is it part of the "respect" when the text of the review is perfect, but many stars are missing? What's the psychology there?

[PhilPhilPhil]

Is it part of the "respect" when the text of the review is perfect, but many stars are missing? What's the psychology there?

Some of these are baffling - amazing, stunning woman, exceptional service, one of the best I've ever had a chance to visit, can't wait to return = 3 or 4 stars max in each category, like wtf? The only way to get 5 stars from this sort is the escort pay him for the privilege of his company?

[Palatine]

Is it part of the "respect" when the text of the review is perfect, but many stars are missing? What's the psychology there?

Maybe partly cultural?

https://community.withairbnb.com/t5/...eans/m-p/22619

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I don’t mind it…

A lot of clients ask me if all other clients treat me nice. I believe there is some surmise we are mostly taken like a sexual worker who can be treated in every way after money are paid. It’s what i mentioned in last thread people think we do all for money without any bounderies and in same time that clients could behave like to us how they want.

But anyway in the end it’s a true…

How many escorts were attacked by client?

One established lady texted me some client broke her noise after he didn’t like something what she said. How many other stories i heard when escort was attacked and raped.

So it’s definetely not a rule everyone treats us nice. This job is a huge risk when we are playing about everything. It’s why i never could understand how someone can’t understand why we have not same rates like any other provider.

[oddball]

I've seen this on other sites too and yeah, thought it weird, both as it implies the expectation that others mistreat the ladies (likely projection on the part of the author) and also if someone is inclined to mistreat another human being why are they going to care what someone they don't know on the internet says about such behaviour?