Double Life

[Nononsense111]

Was out earlier today with a few mates from college and we decided to catch up for a meal.

Everyone kind of had their turn saying what they were up to.

My turn came and I kind of rambled on about anything a mid 20s lad would have going on - sports, the missus nagging me, the job, my extortionate rent (something something countrys fucked), etc,

And it kind of had me thinking.

Imagine how much all our individual house of cards would come crumbling down if people knew of our secret double lives between punting and posting here...

Will it stop my exploits here? Will it fuck!

Just a thought...

[TommyH123]

Was out earlier today with a few mates from college and we decided to catch up for a meal.

Everyone kind of had their turn saying what they were up to.

My turn came and I kind of rambled on about anything a mid 20s lad would have going on - sports, the missus nagging me, the job, my extortionate rent (something something countrys fucked), etc,

And it kind of had me thinking.

Imagine how much all our individual house of cards would come crumbling down if people knew of our secret double lives between punting and posting here...

Will it stop my exploits here? Will it fuck!

Just a thought...

I’d rather stay positive if ye don’t mind

Over 5 years, I’ll continue to do my homework and stick to the system that has served me so well and to the ladies that have never let me down, it’s the overthinking that causes problems

[Nononsense111]

I’d rather stay positive if ye don’t mind

Over 5 years, I’ll continue to do my homework and stick to the system that has served me so well and to the ladies that have never let me down, it’s the overthinking that causes problems

True, like cop on, discretion and prior research will always prevail

[TommyH123]

True, like cop on, discretion and prior research will always prevail

That and only visiting low volume providers especially in hotels, it’s not rocket surgery nor black ops, it’s a bit of craic

[Averageatbest93]

I'm open about it with my friends. We're all living in the modern world where O.F is the number 1 growing job for women. Sex work is normalized. No shame in talking about it, the lads that would look down on you for paying for it are the same lads that pay all their Mrs bills and end up in sexless relationships/marriages , or spend money on expensive dates trying to impress women, and probably don't even get anything at the end of it.

[Thoreau]

Was out earlier today with a few mates from college and we decided to catch up for a meal.

Everyone kind of had their turn saying what they were up to.

My turn came and I kind of rambled on about anything a mid 20s lad would have going on - sports, the missus nagging me, the job, my extortionate rent (something something countrys fucked), etc,

And it kind of had me thinking.

Imagine how much all our individual house of cards would come crumbling down if people knew of our secret double lives between punting and posting here...

Will it stop my exploits here? Will it fuck!

Just a thought...

Think they would be jealous - big time - see Averagebest93 below!!!

[TommyH123]

I'm open about it with my friends. We're all living in the modern world where O.F is the number 1 growing job for women. Sex work is normalized. No shame in talking about it, the lads that would look down on you for paying for it are the same lads that pay all their Mrs bills and end up in sexless relationships/marriages , or spend money on expensive dates trying to impress women, and probably don't even get anything at the end of it.

Sex work is far from normalised, tell that to some of our home grown escorts and you’ll hear them laugh, this country is forward thinking in lots of ways, acceptance of sex workers is not quiet there yet, maybe in time, sad really when you consider how many lives they change for the better and how many families and marriages they keep together solely by the service they provide.

[TheFalcon]

I suppose one can marry for companionship and engage with escorts for that bit of necessary extra excitement,
I grew up watching programmes like Dallas and Jr Ewing (so thats my excuse)- what an actor Larry Hagman

Ive had on mind recently about marrying an old flame - the love of my life-

now even for her would I give up the double life- probably not.

[Nononsense111]

I'm open about it with my friends. We're all living in the modern world where O.F is the number 1 growing job for women. Sex work is normalized. No shame in talking about it, the lads that would look down on you for paying for it are the same lads that pay all their Mrs bills and end up in sexless relationships/marriages , or spend money on expensive dates trying to impress women, and probably don't even get anything at the end of it.

I commend you and your friends for your collective open mindedness

A lot of Irish people would frown upon dabbling in this sort of thing unfortunately

[thehighwayman]

I like keeping my double life secret. It's my own thing. It's no one elses business. It's not hurting anyone. I have kept it a secret for nearly 19 years. I don't think my friends & neighbours would understand. Most of them are married and in relationships. I think how lucky I have been to meet so many beautiful women. Trying expereinces that would be difficult to replicate in real life. Having duos and recently a moresome. I love my double life.