Am I unreasonable

[Stephanie]

She wouldn't take a booking because her friend was in bed asleep.

I was in constant contact.
When her friend got up she took a booking from someone else ahead of me and she knows me.
And she knows I usually book at least an hour.
So she prioritised an unknown for 30 minutes over someone she knows is safe for an hour.
No she did it because she thought she'd get away with it and get 2 bookings
I have to say I feel a bit insulted by her behaviour

That’s bs x

She didn’t take your booking - because she didn’t want to : for whatever reason .

You did well : move on .

But maybe in the quiet of the night , think WHY she didn’t want to see you .

[Stephanie]

Lol .

Disappearing posts once again .

I WISH Sofia would’ve left a handbook behind for next crew .

Julie , the way you guys going , Forum will disintegrate - Again .

There’s a Better way of doing this xxx

[AmorInfinito8]

She wouldn't take a booking because her friend was in bed asleep.
I was in constant contact.
When her friend got up she took a booking from someone else ahead of me and she knows me.
And she knows I usually book at least an hour.
So she prioritised an unknown for 30 minutes over someone she knows is safe for an hour.
No she did it because she thought she'd get away with it and get 2 bookings
I have to say I feel a bit insulted by her behaviour

I have to agree with you I'd feel insulted too!!

if you're seeing a girl regularly you try to build on the friendship and respect for eachother
and to be treated like this isn't on!!

Her lose!!
This other guy's probably a once a month guy were as you seem to have a passion for life and an unquenchable Hunger

She's lost out big time in the long run!!
Plenty more fish Tony👍

[MidlifeCrisis]

I get a message now stating that she's available in half an hour because another punter has just booked.

Never mind her giving you lower priority. Would you seriously consider turning up after she said this?

Did her profile say "Hygiene is important to me."?

[StLune]

My tuppence worth would be that there's no right or wrong answer to the question.
Some people will be a bit cheesed off.. understandably so I would sat.
But someone else might not mind doing the girl a bit of a favour as they know each other a little already.
Business can't be booming for everyone and it's nice to be nice and understanding and helpful perhaps to the girls too.
Maybe especially for someone you like and get on with.
I doubt if any offence was meant intentionally.
But it's a fair question by the op to see what others on here think of the situation he found himself in.

[JennyIrish]

And I was going to book an hour so her loss

Have you ever ever Ever actually booked an hour with these ladies?!!!!

[JennyIrish]

Now I know I am a grumpy fuck and easily annoyed.

About 1pm I sent a message to a young lady asking when she was available.
She said in a little while so I left it an hour and asked again
She replied I can't now because my friend is sleeping.
Ok well let me know when.

I'm close by so I could be there in 10 minutes.

I get a message now stating that she's available in half an hour because another punter has just booked.

This pissed me off, she takes someone she doesn't know over me who she does know.
Because I can just wait.
Well I'm not waiting, I booked someone else who wants my money

Unreasonable? No. You are just being a gobs**te.

This poor lady is not obliged to you.

You have one or two unpopular opinions that I have actually really agreed with, however some of the things I disagree with you on aghhhhhhh just boils my blood.

You and I had this argument before, I do not believe that these ladies who need to see a conveyor belt of clients in order to make any sort of profit are happy, I And the very definition of happy hooker, I love what I do, but no way would I be able to see back to back clients for a day, my mental health simply would not be able to take it.

I despise this “free now/free in 20 mins” Attitude, like a lady should be sitting around waiting for your phone call and a lady should rearrange her plans to suit YOU, As if she is somehow responsible for your lack of ability to plan ahead and make a booking at a time that will suit you both.

With me, I, gratefully, am not stuck for business and there is never going to be a case where I am “free now”, because I plan my my days between bookings and personal commitments, I will always look after my regulars or previous customers because I am very grateful for their support and business, but these ladies who need to see a high volume of clients in order to make profit, they owe you NOTHING, They are doing the best they can in their circumstances.

My attitude to this “free now” craic is Would you ever kindly fcuk off, If you could not plan ahead and arrange a time with me that will suit us both That is your problem not mine, I pay a small fortune for my advert on EI, As do these ladies who you go to see TonyB, where are my times and dates and diary are clearly available, ,

TonyB Have you never been tempted to go and see one of us ladies who are not under pressure to see a high volume of clients in order to turnover profit in order to see what a TRULY Outstanding service is like? Not me now, because I’m pretty sure the two of us would end up killing each other, but you get what I’m saying. I just don’t understand you seem to be constantly complaining about these ladies who are simply doing the best that they can.

[JennyIrish]

That’s where you go wrong

You should be booking ones who want You - not just your money x



I know on My end - life is wonderful that way .

Couldn’t agree more Stephanie. God Almighty I could never sacrifice my mental health by putting myself through an appointment with somebody for just their money. The clients I CHOOSE to see, I like them, either they are good craic, or really interesting, blessed to have some eye wateringly good looking clients, or just ordinary decent gentlemen. I genuinely enjoyed the company of my clients, no way could I endure putting myself through a booking just because I really needed the money.

[bmw528]

Couldn’t agree more Stephanie. God Almighty I could never sacrifice my mental health by putting myself through an appointment with somebody for just their money. The clients I CHOOSE to see, I like them, either they are good craic, or really interesting, blessed to have some eye wateringly good looking clients, or just ordinary decent gentlemen. I genuinely enjoyed the company of my clients, no way could I endure putting myself through a booking just because I really needed the money.

I dont suppose ye might consider coming up to Maynooth Nursing home for some afternoon tea Jenny?

[IAmLIAm]

I do agree with your disposition towards the "free now..." mind set (it is at the very least inconsiderate).
However, I don't think that is how TonyB framed this particular issue.

Seems to me that he had reached out to make an appointment.
Was basically told to check back later.
Did check back later and was eventually told she took another booking and would be available in 30min.

I do understand how this could be seen as a slight towards the punter (from his perspective).
If he felt he was the first to reach out and then was "jumped" by an other.

As others have stated he could reach out to the girl to hear out her side.
There is a chance the the fella that "jumped" him had actually reached out first and the girl was scheduling appropriately.
There is also a chance that the girl was trying to squeeze in a quick visit before taking the longer one.
Be it greed, necessity, poor management skills or a crappy roommate the visit was lost and there is almost always going to be a bit of disappointment in that.

I appreciate that he didn't call out the girl over what doesn't seem to be a habitual offence.
I am glad he was able to vent a bit, see some comradery and take in a few alternate views.