Sex addiction and new year resolutions!

[oldfool]

So as 2023 draws to a close and we make some New Year resolutions. The usual ‘get fit, drink less, eat healthy’ etc all feature for many. What about visiting escorts? You may want to visit more or you may actually be thinking visit less or stop altogether for 2024. Which leads me to ask. Is visiting escorts a sure sign of sex addiction? Do you have limits that you stick to rigidly or are you compulsive? I started this 7 months ago and worry that it may be a habit. What I thought would be a kind of experiment has become more than that. I have spent more than I thought I would. Most of the experiences have been amazing hence the continued visits. Could you stop if you wanted to. I am still of the mind it will run its course but maybe I m fooling myself. Just interested if anyone is in similar mindset.

When i reply to a newbee I always warn them that this habit is addictive and expensive. I started off just wanting to experiment with one "favourite" and found myself hooked. Covid reduced the opportunities and post Covid Dublin meets are less frequent "thanks " to zoom and teams conferencing. There is also the lack of hotel availability creating a problem. These obstacles have not created as much frustration as i would have expected, so maybe i am slowing down due to old age and a lack of the thrill factor.